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Saturday, February 25th, 2023 at
4:35 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
Don’t assume I am above the fear of embarrassment. Far from it. I have my issues. But it is healthy to notice how everything we are afraid of is about the fear of embarrassment. It is not the fear of failure that stops us, it’s the embarrassment of the failure and you getting caught of […]
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Saturday, January 15th, 2022 at
2:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
Let me tell you a story. A mother fears that her daughter will not be there for her when she grows old. She feels embarrassed to ask about it, and embarrassed about the fear and the very need for a daughter’s presence. She knows their relationship isn’t great, and that they are not truly bonding. […]
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Monday, January 3rd, 2022 at
3:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
Usually, psychology calls it the flight or fight response, when, it truly should have a third option in there; cry. Granted, the cry-response is effectively a child’s response, but many adults, particularly women, still react to fear with tears rather than fight or flight. It comes from the feeling that they cannot cope with the […]
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Thursday, October 14th, 2021 at
1:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: feelings, reality check, Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
We are often told “don’t worry” and “fear not”. I say allow yourself to worry, allow yourself to fear. We’re being told “don’t waste your time on anger”, I say be angry when you’re angry. Feel those feelings freely, allow yourself to feel what is true. Face reality as it is, and don’t forget that […]
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Wednesday, August 18th, 2021 at
1:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
People program other people subconsciously by their own beliefs. Matthew McConaughey has such self-esteem, that he can walk into a meeting for a side role, and walk out with the leading role. He probably believes himself to be a hero to strangers, but he MIGHT believe men who know him hate him for the ease […]
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Wednesday, May 26th, 2021 at
1:36 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
When I was a kid, I was an avid reader of Donald Duck -comics. In one of them, and I couldn’t say what strip it was, Uncle Scrootch says to Donald’s nephews, that there is nothing to fear in this world but fear itself. It stuck with me, and I’m pretty convinced he was right. […]
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Thursday, April 22nd, 2021 at
9:58 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Celebrity, Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
Fame is the single easiest asset to convert to dollars. You cannot make much money without a level of fame, you NEED people to know you exist before they can buy anything off you, your services, appearances, your product, whatever that may be. Your reputation, however, should be somewhat likable before you stand to lose […]
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Tuesday, June 9th, 2020 at
8:31 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic, Trust Issues
Fear is never a good motivator when it comes to spiritually sound decisions. However, it is a helpful feeling to determine what type of relationship we’re currently in, and what fears we must work to remove. “Wrong” fears There are fears that signify a relationship that is based on the wrong things. The fear is […]
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Thursday, March 26th, 2020 at
6:51 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
“Everything you want is just outside your comfort zone.” ― Robert G. Allen Now, no matter how much you know about spirituality, the law of attraction, the law of the truest wish, or any of the sort, how much you try to put your life into the hands of fate and good luck, or God even, […]
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Monday, May 28th, 2018 at
1:03 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Internet, Love Relationships, Narcissism, Self-Sabotage, Sex, Sexual Identity, The Inner Critic, Thinker Type, Normal Person*
Remember that for the Normal Person*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Normal Person* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]
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