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Sometimes, Cat Type Thinkers are terrified of rejection, utterly romantic, and very keen to form a relationship…

Cat Type Thinkers, men especially, often display the Avoidant Attachment Style, or disorder as it’s sometimes named. This is a reaction to the way people react to them, sometimes their parents and even a person with a Secure Attachment Style may show symptoms of the Avoidant Attachment Style. These are terms from the Attachment Theory, […]

A narcissist is a rejection junkie. They’ll reject you to make you want them more.

A narcissist is really only interested in relationships for the purpose of boosting one’s own self-image or for improving one’s societal stance. When someone rejects them, they feel that person is their superior, and they NEED TO get to that person’s good books. They’ll reject you only if they sense you’re about to reject them, […]

How to take rejection?

I am a master at taking rejection; I’m even too good at it. I’m so good that men tend not to realize I was interested in the first place. That said, don’t become as good as I am at it. It does pay to be reasonably good at it, tho, for your own convenience. Now. […]

Marriage and Divorce as per Cat Type Thinking* and Lover-thinking* way

Marriage contracts should be reformatted by the Lover-thinking* and Cat Type Thinking* manner. The couple should be asked to agree before marrying on the terms of the dissolving of the marriage; can one partner file for a divorce alone, or do both partners need to sign the divorce paper, without coercion, to be considered legal? […]

When is it OK to divorce?

If you don’t want to continue a marriage, you don’t need to. I personally am not a huge fan of marriage to begin with, but in the right circumstances, sure, it can be good, but it shouldn’t really be a lock-in thing for many reasons. Just make sure your wife or husband is physically safe […]

Why do some people accept a breakup so easily?

When you “went through a lot together,” reconsider what it was that you went through with them… Did you GO THROUGH things, or did you RATHER put them through a lot of shite FOR YOU? Did they have that SAME bonding experience as you did, or could it be that they rather felt violated, abused, […]

Insanity is a question of who you’re asking.

There are two ways to become pathological in one’s mind: The need to control everything and everyone around you and the excessive need to be free and control nothing. We all fit somewhere on that slider. You can well imagine that if there are two people living closely together who are mentally on the different […]

Dealing with abandonment and breakup

People who leave you without a second thought may not AT ALL be callous toward your suffering for their leaving, mind you. What they might be feeling, though, is that they wouldn’t be missed anyway if they left. It is not at all given, that people in your life feel wanted in it or that […]

Take rejection as a push toward your True Emotion Mirrors.

From now on, don’t think of a rejection as a “no, you can’t have what you want” but as a push toward your True Emotion Mirror: “I might look like the right thing, but no, you’re looking for THAT.” Still, a “rejection” is sometimes a plea for a little more time. “I know you’re the […]

True Emotion Mirror rejection – is it real?

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) will never reject you for real. That said, there is a good chance a person might THINK this sexy hot individual is their True Emotion Mirror when they’re simply not. A person unable or unwilling to contemplate the possibility that a rejection they experienced might be real rather than flirtation may […]

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