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Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection.

This is something that the Old Souls* should know: Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection from strangers, but they’re terrified of losing an opportunity to make or keep a friend. Therefore, they’re hanging on if you seem uncertain about your rejection – just in case. A the Old Souls* doesn’t like to openly and coldly reject […]

A Rejection Junkie

A rejection junkie is a person who believes a rejection from someone they are genuinely interested in could not be real, but that it is only flirtation. A rejection junkie has narcissistic self-confidence in that not one person they’d want to get to know in one sense or another could reject them for reals. A […]

Why you shouldn’t give in to rejection junkies.

A rejection junkie is a person who cannot accept the idea that they have been rejected. They don’t BELIEVE they have been truly rejected, but they believe this person is toying with them, wants to get something more out of the relationship and thus positioning themselves for a negotiation, or most likely that they are […]

“A childish breakup?”

Oh, who cares? We’re adult enough to deal with childish breakups. 😀 You know, eventually, you get tired of patting people’s heads to deal with something they have probably experienced enough times to have the coping mechanisms in place by now. 😀

Alternative to a flat-out breakup

There are situations when you cannot truly break up with someone. This person may be a family member or a highly dependent the Young Soul*partner. In that case, what the Old Souls* should consider as an alternative to an outright breakup is the redefinition of the role of the Young Soul*in their life – rather […]

Should you stick around to give people endless time to reach closure after a breakup?

I must be a bit of a sucker for this, admittingly. Imagine breaking up with someone, and they keep tugging your sleeve to talk about it, or to understand it better, or to just feel sad together… Should you? This can be a strategy to drag the breakup along for so long, that you forget […]

Some signs of a pending breakup

I fear this post is a bit of a rinse and repeat, but spirit told me to. There are strategies people use to kinda warn their partner that they are about to take off. This is not necessarily a “let’s talk” kind of a warning, but more like “don’t be terribly surprised when I tell […]

Rejection; the junkie, the fobic, and the elitist

To be fair, an elitist can be either the junkie or the phobic, and the idea of “superior” is at the core of all of these issues. Still, things will get complicated, when you add equality into the mix while there are still superiority-elements in people’s philosophy… And if there aren’t, there are no concept […]

the Old Souls* breakup attempt that turns into a proposal in the Young Soul* mind

Now, forgive me for the tone. I am a Old Souls* myself. I’ve struggled with my relationships with the Young Soul* my entire life, and my patience with them has always been… Short. I’ve spent the last 10 years of my life trying to understand how everything I say to the Young Soul* somehow turns […]

Why do the Old Souls* hate rejection so much they give up on a True Emotion Mirror?

The Old Souls* are often very well-liked people with a high self-confidence and higher than average IQ, which contributes to the feeling of being different and separated from others – why on earth would that make them accept rejection so easily and let go, when the normal reaction is to keep on trying hard, pestering, […]

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