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Is domestic violence between True Emotion Mirrors the same as between other people?

There is a little something that we need to discuss. Domestic violence is a bit of a taboo topic, and I ask you to have an open mind about this. We are animals. The fact we are animals among other species means that once the layers of civilization peel back, what is left is a […]

True Emotion Mirrors and Rejection

First of all, let’s discuss why this issue must be discussed in massive detail. When a person meets their True Emotion Mirror, they may react in unexpected ways to this connection, because it is always a life-changing experience, particularly when meeting the first Mature State True Emotion Mirror. The TrEmor is such a person, that […]

True Emotion Mirror or a simple rejection junkie – here’s the key points

The first question that enters the mind of a True Emotion Mirror soon after they meet their other half is “Oh my god. I’m going crazy. I think they’re in love with me too? Are they in love with me? Am I imagining this?” They are always worried that they are projecting their own feelings, […]

Rejection and Playing Hard to Get

Here’s my dilemma: I look at myself in the mirror and I see the same face looking back at me every day. The same as all of us. I’m used to being who I am. When you see me for the first time, that’s the first time you’ve seen me. I’m used to me. When […]

After a divorce or a breakup, it’s time for a man to get selfish!

Women are constantly reminded to take care of themselves for a change, to think about themselves first, take care of mommy first, but do men ever get to be selfish or choose for themselves first? I say that not very often. I am also here to remind you guys that maybe you should take that […]

Dating after divorce – You’re too old for another compromise, man

Dating after divorce is a bit different than what it was the last time you did it. You think all these young kids are doing it so differently. But you know what? You’re not going to be dating those kids (most likely), you’ll still be dating people about the same age as you are. If […]

Confession of infidelity: a sign of trust or a breakup attempt?

When a Savants* talks about their private life, they do not mean it is a specific sign of trust, more to the point, if they do not, that is a severe sign of mistrust. This often drives the Savants* and the Normal Person* together, because the Normal Person* believes that the Savants* […]

How to learn to deal with rejection

Rejection is never pleasant, but there are ways to deal with it that makes it easier to take. This is not to ignore what happened, deny one’s own part of what happened, but to understand what rejection is and isn’t about. Rejection doesn’t mean you are a bad, unlovable, undesirable person. Rejection simply means you […]

How do you know if a rejection is real or a game?

There are people who toy with the people who they are interested in. They play games of all sorts, test their intended, challenge them, irritate them, try to push them away just to see if they’d call their bluff. It may be truly difficult to tell when a rejection is real and when it is […]

When Is a Rejection NOT a Rejection?

Rejection can be painful when it comes from someone who you thought would love you. While sometimes this is a real intent, too, there are plenty of situations where people simply misinterpret insecurity and fear for a rejection. This post is hopefully reassuring for those who are truly in love, and who are truly loved […]

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