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Saturday, March 25th, 2017 at
10:39 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Arguing, Rejection, Unrequited love
If you are a monogamist, this should be easy for you. You know each one of us typically can only have ONE partner, ideally, for the rest of their lives. Think about that. The more wanted a person is, the more options they have to choose from to be that one single partner in this […]
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Saturday, June 4th, 2016 at
8:05 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Abuse
Note; This post is written well before the full story of what happened between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard unfolded. I leave it out there to make a point that I was able to accept the possibility that Depp was violent, and am not blinded to that possibility… At all. Obviously, we still don’t know […]
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Sunday, May 22nd, 2016 at
6:39 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, Heartbreak, Overcoming Fear, Self-Love, Soulmate, The Subconscious Mind, Vulnerability
There are two types of thinkers. The Savants* and the Normal Person*. The Savants* are always ready to talk about their emotions, the Normal Person* need a little warm up by talking nonsense for a while. This doesn’t sound like a major issue, but it does relate to every communication problem we ever […]
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Thursday, May 12th, 2016 at
10:59 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Arguing, denial, Love Relationships, Rejection, Sex, Sexual Identity, True Emotion Mirrors, Unrequited love
I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]
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Saturday, November 14th, 2015 at
12:56 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Arguing, Rejection, rejection junkie, Unrequited love
There are two different types of rejection junkies, and for a soulmate theorist like me, there is that annoying aspect of knowing that the behavior of a True Emotion Mirror* can make you think you are one, and knowing the way soulmates behave in reality may make a rejection junkie think that what they are […]
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Friday, May 8th, 2015 at
3:59 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Arguing, Rejection, Unrequited love, warnings
I write this blog painfully aware of two different thinker types prying on every word. One finds justification to keep harassing people who do not love them, the other nervously seeks for warning signs that they are doing just that – and stop when they haven’t even made it clear they’re interested. I am balancing between two extremes, so please keep this in mind as you go.
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Friday, March 20th, 2015 at
2:36 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Breakup and Divorce, emotions
If you were the one who was left: The galore of emotions that are associated with the event of being left are difficult to put in order and deal with, that goes without saying. Disbelief, hurt, shame, fear, betrayal, nostalgia, loss, love, misunderstanding, understanding, respect, disrespect, anger, frustration… All of these and more emotions are […]
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Tuesday, April 22nd, 2014 at
2:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Arguing, Entitlement issues, love, Rejection, Unrequited love
Again, be careful not to throw the baby out with the bath water with this thing, but a little bathing is necessary. People who take rejection with acceptance, are people who believe they will be able to live a happy and fruitful life independent of other people – although knowing someone would make them happier. Not being able to accept rejection is a sign of poor self-esteem and co-dependence.
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Tuesday, January 14th, 2014 at
9:22 pm in Australia - Last edit on
November 24, 2024 Tags: (TrEmoR) Fears, Authenticity, Breakup and Divorce, love, Soulmate, True Love
It didn’t take us long to decide to ban the entire idea of no divorce, but to put divorce on a pedestal; this lovely thing was the very thing that made our commitment valuable, sacred and pure; freedom. The thought of divorce was inconceivable, yet an absolute necessity to the sanctity of this marriage.
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