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True Emotion Mirrors break all your relationship rules – and it feels good.

The one thing you can say about your True Emotion Mirror is that they never really feel bad to you, no matter what they do. You kinda enjoy them “torturing” you; you love them for dumping you; you love them for forcing you to stay (or, dare I say it, into sex with them) – […]

Loving your True Emotion Mirror is not a choice.

A True Emotion Mirror is the highest soulmate connection possible. It is a bond an outsider cannot break – if it ever breaks, the break comes from the inside. That said, people often always mistake the identity of their True Emotion Mirror because they want to convince themselves that they’ve already found it… People who […]

True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates are not and do not feel like a negative thing to you.

There maybe someone in your life who thinks that you feel you have an obligation toward your True Emotion Mirror or your Precious Soulmate. However, you recognize a FALSE TrEmoR and Precious soulmate by feeling negatively obligated to them. You don’t WANT TO live for them, do them favors, or spend time with them, let […]

Kick your humility and modesty to the curb with your True Emotion Mirror.

In fact, this is one of the things that the Young Soul* do right compared to the Old Souls*: they are not afraid of being rejected, but what they don’t do right is take a rejection when that happens. They are not afraid of rejection basically because the Old Souls* fear it enough to fear […]

Polyandrous women have a host of coping mechanisms for losing their True Emotion Mirrors.

For us polyandrous women, the ability to let go of the men we love has been an essential life skill to learn in monogamous societies. You know you can only have one, and basically, you’re just waiting to find out which one of them will risk being made into a fool when your other True […]

When you meet your True Emotion Mirror, you have to tell them you want them.

True Emotion Mirrors are somewhat a WORD AWAY from becoming your lover. We tend to make the mistake of ASSUMING our TrEmoR is the self-confident one, the one with all the power, the one who makes the decision whether we’re good enough or not – whether you’re male or female. Normally, we have a certain […]

True Emotion Mirrors and the suspicion they feel of each other.

True Emotion Mirrors seem far, far too good to be true to each other. They may also sound too good to be true when someone else figures, “You know, I know this guy/girl who would be just PERFECT for you…” And your every instinct goes: “Oh hell no, here we go right down toward hell […]

When you meet your True Emotion Mirror, flaunt your negatives.

(Perceived) perfect people often find themselves single or in unsatisfying relationships for a lifetime. Perfectionists tend to try and reach perfection to feel worthy of the love of the kind of people they love: perfectionists. Perfectionists love perfectionists, there’s no question about it. However, there’s a problem with it. True love is often about the […]

How do I know my True Emotion Mirror?

The best answer to this question is this: “YOU WILL KNOW.” You don’t have to even know True Emotion Mirrors exist; you will still know. There is NO QUESTION about it. There is nothing like them. You will feel feelings you didn’t know existed – or knew, but only in a sort of fantasy fiction […]

True Emotion Mirror or a Narcissistic Dynamic?

Incredibly, a narcissistic relationship mimics a True Emotion Mirror relationship at times very convincingly. There are a few key differences that you can pin, however, to see whether this is a narcissistic bind or a True Emotion Mirror relationship. 1. Both True Emotion Mirrors and narcissistic sources can give you everything you want in life, […]

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