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A narcissist or a True Emotion Mirror?

The nasty thing about True Emotion Mirrors (twin flames) and narcissists is that they often resemble each other A LOT. Is something a True Emotion Mirror relationship or a narcissistic relationship, in other words? Can a relationship work with a narcissist if they’re also your True Emotion Mirror? Fast love & Love bombing Both narcissists […]

Love Bombing or True Love?

You know we love to say nice things to people who we love and that is absolutely natural. When we truly fall in love, we shower that person with praise. We cannot get enough of saying nice things about someone we adore. So how do you know it’s “love bombing” and as such. Do they […]

If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Cat Thinker(s)* and the Dog Thinker(s)*, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Cat Thinker(s)*, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Dog Thinker(s)* chasing you, or if you’re the Dog Thinker(s)*, you love to chase the Cat Thinker(s)* because you like a challenge. Old Soul* […]

Simplest possible way to find your True Emotion Mirror

This is True Emotion Mirrors for dummies, the easiest possible way: Do not adapt your behavior from how you treat men or women. Treat your dates the same way as you’d instinctively treat your friends.. Be shamelessly yourself when dating. (Easier said than done: you are what you enjoy. You are the closest possible version […]

Do you have to be perfectly balanced and healthy to find your True Emotion Mirror.

Short answer: no. Without them, you can’t be perfectly fine. You have to be healthy enough, though. To mention some requirements; you cannot have a huge resistance to/unrealistic idea of who you are as a person (huge false ego), and you have to have strong enough self-confidence not to run from them at sight. You […]

Old fashioned love relationship ideals maybe holding you from your True Emotion Mirror

There’s the natural way for us to love and bond, and live, and then, there’s the control-based way to love and bond. A lot of it is a historically created solution to problems that no longer apply to us. How is a woman loved? With money or with respect to her talents? Is monogamy really […]

Feeling the True Emotion Mirror possessiveness. “They’re mine, no matter what,” and how does this feeling deceive you.

There’s a nuance of a difference in True Emotion Mirror possessiveness and regular-ass abusive possessive feeling. IF you feel a possessive feeling about a supposed True Emotion Mirror, this describes the differences: True Emotion Mirror: “I don’t have to do anything, I don’t have to hold onto them, they’re mine. I can feel how they […]

True Emotion Mirror men… Uh. Feminism happened, get with the program. :p

Now. Darlings. My sweet chauvinists of the bygone era, I love you all, but there’s something you need to figure out. You are not needed, but you are wanted. You are not a necessity; you’re a luxury. Even if you have empty pockets or no pants at all. Sex with you is not a punishment… […]

How the selfless party to a True Emotion Mirror relationship might actually be the problem.

Logically, it makes sense that selfishness is the death of a True Emotion Mirror relationship. However, compared to all others, the problem with this relationship is that if you were hedonistic and “selfishly” going after what you both want, you’d both want the same thing. You both may think the other is “too good” for […]

I don’t think you can brag so much you’ll put off your True Emotion Mirror.

While modesty and humility are good traits when dealing with OTHER people, with your True Emotion Mirror, I don’t think you can brag so much you’d put them off you. They may start cringing when you do your best bragging, but I don’t think you can do it so much they’ll completely fall out of […]

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