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Old fashioned love relationship ideals maybe holding you from your True Emotion Mirror

There’s the natural way for us to love and bond, and live, and then, there’s the control-based way to love and bond. A lot of it is a historically created solution to problems that no longer apply to us. How is a woman loved? With money or with respect to her talents? Is monogamy really […]

Feeling the True Emotion Mirror possessiveness. “They’re mine, no matter what,” and how does this feeling deceive you.

There’s a nuance of a difference in True Emotion Mirror possessiveness and regular-ass abusive possessive feeling. IF you feel a possessive feeling about a supposed True Emotion Mirror, this describes the differences: True Emotion Mirror: “I don’t have to do anything, I don’t have to hold onto them, they’re mine. I can feel how they […]

True Emotion Mirror men… Uh. Feminism happened, get with the program. :p

Now. Darlings. My sweet chauvinists of the bygone era, I love you all, but there’s something you need to figure out. You are not needed, but you are wanted. You are not a necessity; you’re a luxury. Even if you have empty pockets or no pants at all. Sex with you is not a punishment… […]

How the selfless party to a True Emotion Mirror relationship might actually be the problem.

Logically, it makes sense that selfishness is the death of a True Emotion Mirror relationship. However, compared to all others, the problem with this relationship is that if you were hedonistic and “selfishly” going after what you both want, you’d both want the same thing. You both may think the other is “too good” for […]

I don’t think you can brag so much you’ll put off your True Emotion Mirror.

While modesty and humility are good traits when dealing with OTHER people, with your True Emotion Mirror, I don’t think you can brag so much you’d put them off you. They may start cringing when you do your best bragging, but I don’t think you can do it so much they’ll completely fall out of […]

You don’t BECOME a generalized True Emotion Mirror. You FIND yours and then, you are theirs.

You’re doing it wrong if you are trying to find out how to become a generic True Emotion Mirror. NOBODY is a generic True Emotion Mirror, but you can BECOME an Enigma Soulmate. An Enigma Soulmate has generic traits that people in general find attractive. Superstar traits. Enigma’s True Emotion Mirror is another Enigma, but […]

You can stop expecting true love to be unconditional

You are ashamed that you have to do something for love, right?   You’re envious of babies who get to shit their pants and be graded and fed and smiled at all day long, right? What do they have that you don’t, you ask. Age, on their side, is what. It stops being cute around […]

(Online) Scam or a True Emotion Mirror?

I have a bit of a love affair with online dating, I must admit. I find it a romantic idea, that you’ll meet someone you had no way of meeting otherwise through this thing… Meeting of minds so similar, at vast distances, not because you were both raised the same way, but because you both […]

So what if your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t fit every TrEmoR sign there is?

SIGNS are just that: Signs. They are not rules written in stone. It is not a law. Signs. They are more like signs at a shopping center than traffic signs at that. They’re typically used symbols of something other than something you need to absolutely live by. The only sign that truly matters is that […]

How do you know that the True Emotion Mirror separation phase is coming to an end?

You may start prepping signs for yourself right away. Make notes as to what needs to happen so that you can happily move on from whatever situation you are in now, such as a Trail Companion* relationship. You might already know things. “My husband needs to fall in love with his True Emotion Mirror just […]

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