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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Don’t worry, you’re not so hot that people will line up to meet your demands against their will. Trust me.

So I just found out that my True Emotion Mirror, who, to me, is the hottest thing in the world, doesn’t talk to me or other women about what he wants from women because he’s afraid women will jump into pleasing him… Successfully. Yes. The dude’s like ripped out of the cover of a romance […]

How to get rid of a trust-bonded or overly-eager Dog Type Thinker

Take a leaf out of the playbook of a person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder: Make it THEIR FAULT that your relationship isn’t going anywhere. A person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder will do this with everyone, you can apply it to one person or the unwanted type of people. “I don’t think you are […]

The child’s trust in a narcissistic ex spouse.

A narcissist is a child in an adult body. They are not evil any more than a child is evil when scared or fighting to survive on their own in the big, bad world. It is difficult for an adult in an adult body to understand what they are so afraid of, but one of […]

You have to raise your children so you can trust them to handle themselves when they grow up.

There is a weird spiritual phenomenon that is there to protect us from mind control. It prevents a person from doing anything that an outside force is trying to make them do – even if it is for their own protection or to help someone else. If another entity tries to push another into doing […]

Asking for blind trust and tests of loyalty is not romantic – it’s a scam.

Online or offline, scammers trust on two character traits: Blind trust and loyalty. If you have to PROVE THESE, you’re dealing with a scammer. If you have to BRAVE YOURSELF, it’s a scam. A well-intentioned, empathic person will be more than ready to prove their trustworthiness to you. And that makes them a potential victim […]

the Dog Type Thinker follow the leader blindly – and are willing to commit murders to prove they trust the leader 100%.

What makes Lover-thinking* dangerous for themselves and others is that they are willing to follow their leader so blindly that they’ll commit murders without being asked to sometimes. (Currently, the more likely outcome to this blind worship is a severed penis or reverted vagina, however.) The problem is that if the leader is a Cat […]

Why can’t we “just trust” the True Emotion Mirror connection?

A True Emotion Mirror connection benefits from certain innocent faith in love. Realism is a little toxic to it, but being a realist myself, I cannot help but analyze. “Why can’t you just trust it?” is like asking a cow to “just fly.” Maybe a better analogy would be an injured bird. You can’t “just […]

The test of blind trust -people

There are people who believe that if you were kind to them first and then turn abusive, it’s a test of faith, loyalty, or daring, and that on the other side of the suffering lies a great reward, something as an uplift in social status, wealth, or (better) marriage. It may be near impossible to […]

A person who loves you will give you time to adjust and to trust.

A celebrity asked me how they can trust a person who promises them everything. They seem too good to be true, but they fear yet another humiliating public relationship failure in front of cameras. They fear their new person will be impatient to get in front of cameras and to become famous (for a good […]

You have to tell yourself the truth – you’re the only one you can fully trust to do so.

There are people who lie to themselves. A lot of them. There are also people who lie to others about how they feel about that other… Most people do unless they’re willing to LIVE with their words. People can tell you they love you or care about you, “of course,” but you cannot trust words […]

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