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the Cat Type Thinkers wish to start new relationships with honesty…

the Cat Type Thinkers have a fixed personality that the Dog Type Thinker try to mould in their children. If a Cat Type Thinkers has been born to a family where there’s a strong the Dog Type Thinker influence, they can feel like they’ve been forced to lie their entire lives just to keep the […]

Men want relationships, too… And women want sex.

Here’s a kicker for a lot of you… Men want relationships and women want sex. The question is, do they want it with you? Everybody wants a relationship with someone who they find romantically and sexually attractive. Otherwise, it makes no sense to be in a relationship. The trouble here is that people who are […]

Introverts dodge unwanted relationships – not all of them.

Relationships with nice people can be really messy. You like them, but you don’t love them, right? You fear losing them, but you don’t really want them around ALL THE TIME, or you don’t want to get too close to them, despite liking them around a lot. When the relationship starts with an expectation of […]

Who wants what in your extended relationships?

Be careful when a friend or parent of your partner tells you that your partner wants you to do this or that “but is too shy to tell you so” or something to the effect. Especially if you KNOW your partner has told you the opposite, don’t believe second-hand information over first-hand information from your […]

Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about […]

You don’t have to try and trick straight men/women into straight relationships.

I think both genders have this idea that the other gender would rather not deal with the other. There’s a backing of reality to it, and it’s a bit of a long story to share. I’ll get to that for those who want it, but for those who don’t, let’s just say this: Heterosexual and […]

Nobody, no woman, even, is good at all relationships.

Men are not particularly bad at relationships. Neither are women. Women are not “better at relationships” at all. We are all great at relationships that we understand. Everything else, we blame on the opposite party. The Dog Type Thinker think they are “great at relationships” but they’re great at relationships with other the Dog Type […]

Why slam-shut closed relationships don’t work?

If you seek commitment, try not to forget that relationships can be broken. Divorce is still a real thing. This is the reason: When you commit to someone with absolutely NO WAY OUT the only risk you’re facing now is that THIS won’t work, and you’re stuck. Then, your full focus goes into TRYING to […]

People prioritize their relationships differently.

When you make a friend, it’s good to know their priorities. In which order do they consider themselves loyal – by default? Friends (which ones, male or female friends?), family members (does the gender of the family member count?), boyfriends/girlfriends, fiances, spouses? Does a friend get behind a spouse, or do they remain a first […]

Why some people would want contentment over True Emotion Mirror relationships and vice versa?

There are two kinds of people, basically. One wants one type of love, and others want that other. Then, there’s a third type that everybody avoids; an obsession. The trouble is that True Emotion Mirror relationships may look on the outside like an obsession without being so. Obsession is a feeling that you cling to […]

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