Principle decisions in relationships: yey or nay?

Posted on Saturday, December 24th, 2022 at 2:53 am in Australia - Last edit on Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues

OK, so in a fit of anger, you screamed at your mother that you’d never speak to her again for as long as you live, and you won’t be seen at her fucking funeral, either. Giving it six months, your feelings have somewhat eased up; should you keep to your decision just so you don’t […]

Checklist to make sure you’ll only have great relationships

Posted on Friday, February 25th, 2022 at 7:00 am in Australia - Last edit on January 22, 2025 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues

I know you won’t believe me at first, at least. This kind of goes against all relationship advice you’ve heard so far – but how is your love life going? Have awesome friends, then? Played it all by the book and your relationships are bland or temporary to say the best? You’ve sort of approached […]

Why is it important to a M8R10 know how to be alone (without friends or love relationships)?

Posted on Sunday, December 5th, 2021 at 11:26 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, friends, love, Love Relationships, relationships, The Free Spirit Theory, Trust Issues

Short and sweet: If you’re a catch, and others agree, they’ll want to… well, catch you. If you’re dependent on having SOMEONE, you won’t stay alone/single for long enough to even FIND someone worthy of you, let alone making it official. (Polyamory might be a good idea.)

Common Mistakes People Make in Relationships but Blame Their Partner for Them

Posted on Wednesday, September 22nd, 2021 at 2:36 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues

There are a number of common relationship mistakes people do, but wholeheartedly think it’s other people’s flaw or blame. These are some of them – I may have missed a few. This might make a rough bit of reading. Assuming the other person WANTS a relationship with you This is probably the biggest mistake people […]

Romantic relationships with no sex involved – is that supposed to be enough?

Posted on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021 at 9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Love Relationships, relationships, romantic relationships, Sex, Sexual Identity, Trust Issues

In the following, I am in no way suggesting that people should always do relationships the same way. Not at all. Everyone who has listened to me for five seconds should know this. However, what people seem to insist on having the right to do is to dictate the rules of the relationship THEY WANT […]

Honest Relationships (Friendships included)

Posted on Thursday, July 2nd, 2020 at 11:01 pm in Australia - Last edit on Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues

There are a few ways a person gains a reputation of being snobbish or a bad person or “undeserving” or a number of other negative labels based on how they make friends or treat other people. This is a bit of a trap, to be honest, and I need the M8R10 group to be very […]

How do people wind up disappointing or deceiving you in relationships?

Posted on Monday, June 15th, 2020 at 10:38 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues

Trusting people can be scary. Sometimes, when people feel afraid of trusting people, they show more trust than they truly feel and go against their better judgment. This is because they’re fully aware that they have trouble trusting people, so they go overboard with trust and wind up burned. They force themselves to trust people […]

How to avoid True Emotion Mirror -blocking relationships

Posted on Saturday, June 13th, 2020 at 12:37 pm in Australia - Last edit on August 26, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, relationships, Soulmates, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love, Trust Issues

Most old souls, by experience, believe that the height of true love is immediate, or it won’t turn into love. This is partly true. Curiosity about this person must exist and it must be mutual, or it won’t turn into true love. But you can be curious about someone without it being a Mature State […]

What does fear tell us about our different type relationships?

Posted on Tuesday, June 9th, 2020 at 8:31 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic, Trust Issues

Fear is never a good motivator when it comes to spiritually sound decisions. However, it is a helpful feeling to determine what type of relationship we’re currently in, and what fears we must work to remove. “Wrong” fears There are fears that signify a relationship that is based on the wrong things. The fear is […]

Stages of an undefined (possibly True) strong soulmate relationships

Posted on Friday, August 31st, 2018 at 9:46 am in Australia - Last edit on June 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Soulmate, Trust Issues

The following stages can pass fast for some people, they vary in strength regardless of it being a sign of the love felt one or both ways, but it is more a measure of one’s level of self-confidence and soul age; the more times a person has gone through this in previous lifetimes, the more […]