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People talk shit about your True Emotion Mirror. You have to know the truth.

Helpful people can be very freaking disruptive to True Emotion Mirror relationships. They mean well; they want to play cupid with the obvious couples, and what they do, mostly, is fuck it up for them. They have their own idea how true romance goes, and it may have absolutely NOTHING to do with the dynamic […]

Telling the truth is difficult because of people’s different assumptions.

We all project our feelings and worldview on others; we assume people are more similar to us than what they actually are. If you want to work, you assume everyone does. If, to you, figuring out you’re bisexual was a liberation, you assume everyone is bisexual. If you would never lie about something like that, […]

Create a fake image of who you are in truth.

If you feel embarrassed about “coming out” as your authentic self because you’re not sure it’s received correctly, how about you think of it as a con? You “Fake it ’till you make it” as they say: you “lie” until it becomes true. This is often the way people go from their teen years to […]

A bad intuitive takes a person’s fears and insecurities for the truth.

There are psychics and intuitives who are quite innocently tuned in with another person’s fears and insecurities that they believe to be the truth of the matter. (An intuitive is a person who doesn’t act as a psychic but is well attuned to other people’s feelings and emotional states. Most of us have some ability […]

When you want to know what men find attractive, don’t rely on women to tell you the truth.

Well… With exceptions. 😉 Women, as a gender, have always dictated what men HAVE TO find attractive about women, what they are ALLOWED TO feel attracted to. They sort of behave accordingly, but that doesn’t mean their NATURAL INSTINCT follows what they’re actually told to feel attracted to. If you want to know what men […]

Religious faith vs. seeking of the truth

I encourage people to seek the truth in all things. My religious aunt tells me, proudly, that “the truth doesn’t burn in a fire”… But in her case, the word “truth” should be replaced with the word ignorance. You see, when you DECIDE not to be SWAYED by anything, not logic, not proof, not by […]

You cannot insult a person by telling the truth about them

I have spent my freaking existence trying to hone my skill of INSULTING people by telling the truth about them. I am very good at saying the truth about people. The trouble is, you can’t insult a person by telling the truth about them, because they are who they are based on their own personal […]

False ego is the stories you tell yourself about yourself and your standing with other people so the truth wouldn’t hurt so much

“Ego”, without the definition of “false” means your idea of who you are; the complex sum of who you are when you say “I”. Your idea of yourself. Your understanding of yourself. NOT having an ego is impossible, unless you blend into the Universe and forget you exist. False ego is different. It is the […]

Allow yourself to be a problem for others (Speak the truth, FEEL the truth)

If you find yourself in a situation where there are a ton of people trying to push you into a different directions in life, (or you merely FEEL pushed,) and you already know they’re not going to get anywhere because well, you know yourself and you know the direction that they’re pushing you into is […]

How do you get people to tell you the truth?

Obviously, this is not intended as an instruction to manipulate, but then again, your will to manipulate might end if you tried this on someone you honestly care about. When people talk to you, believe what they say by default, but don’t react to it too strongly. As in: “I’m an airline pilot.” “Oh that’s […]

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