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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

There is no such thing as unconditional love.

Love is ALWAYS conditional. Always. Always. Always. When it’s your child, the conditions are lower than when it’s someone else’s (adult) child in question. The conditions may be: “As long as you’re beautiful, successful, wealthy…” or “as long as you remain pathetic, pitiful, ugly, and needy freak.” Now, the question you need to answer is […]

Savage Spirit Mirrors (Committed Life Partner)

  The Savage Spirit Mirrors are a bit of a conundrum. Once they learn to trust that they are fully loved, they’ll turn into savages with each other. They’ll play rough… Very rough. That said, when they’re done fighting, they can turn into boredom itself; Committed Life Partners. It is the Dog Type Thinker Thinking […]

Unconditional love doesn’t exist. At best, it’s a chance or a phase.

If you are one of those people who are looking for unconditional love, please do understand this: It doesn’t exist one-sidedly, anyway. And when it goes both ways, it’s what we call “a mutually abusive” relationship. Unconditional love is reserved for toddlers and people fallen into very bad times. But even then, it is only […]

True Emotion Mirrors, Authenticity, and Unconditional Love

True Emotion Mirrors are, to each other, people who, in their authentic state, are everything they love about other people. Once a person truly liberates oneself from social norms and expectations, they are exactly what their counterpart will love. Mind you, a person may have to try and control their thrive for perfectionism to fit […]

Polygamy isn’t about “freedom”, it’s as much about commitment as monogamy is, just with more than one person.

Many people think that polyamorous people are looking for FREEDOM and DETACHMENT from other people. This is not at all what polyamory is about, at least not to all people. I personally prefer to use the word polyGAMY rather than polyamory, because it clearly states an alternative to monoGAMY, a type of marriage, a commitment […]

Why people looking for true love are NEAR IMPOSSIBLE to coax into making a commitment?

There is an interesting interaction between people who believe in true love (or True Emotion Mirror love) and those who believe in… Marriage. The people who think marriage = true love won’t understand why people looking for true love are nearly impossible to coax into making a commitment to a serious relationship. What they don’t […]

Commitment or Romance

There are people who believe love cannot even start without a commitment. Without the reassurance that no matter what YOU will not leave me, this company won’t fire me, this hospital will never turn me away… They want to know that whomever they are with, they can COUNT on, 100% no matter what. They will […]

the Dog Type Thinker’s idea of a commitment (compared to the Intuitive)

The the Dog Type Thinker need an absolute commitment to truly fall in love. They begin dating to find a partner they can trust, and usually, this means they want someone from a family very similar to that of their own. They pay a lot of attention to your family background, much more so than […]

the Cat Type Thinkers’s idea of “a commitment” compared to the Dog Type Thinker idea of Commitment

The the Cat Type Thinkers find the freedom to leave but wanting to stay with someone the ultimate rush in a relationship. They get excited about the thought that although there is nothing really stopping you from leaving, each day that I wake up, you’re still here, because this is where you want to be, […]

How To Stay On Course To a Commitment

The only thing you need to know about other people and their relationship goals is this: They don’t necessarily want what you want. That is all. You want something different. To you, it’s the bigger and better, and other’s biggest dream is something else, but whatever you want, is your guiding post. There are tons […]

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