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Sometimes, Old Souls* are terrified of rejection, utterly romantic, and very keen to form a relationship…

Old Souls*, men especially, often display the Avoidant Attachment Style, or disorder as it’s sometimes named. This is a reaction to the way people react to them, sometimes their parents and even a person with a Secure Attachment Style may show symptoms of the Avoidant Attachment Style. These are terms from the Attachment Theory, which […]

A narcissist is a rejection junkie. They’ll reject you to make you want them more.

A narcissist is really only interested in relationships for the purpose of boosting one’s own self-image or for improving one’s societal stance. When someone rejects them, they feel that person is their superior, and they NEED TO get to that person’s good books. They’ll reject you only if they sense you’re about to reject them, […]

How to take rejection?

I am a master at taking rejection; I’m even too good at it. I’m so good that men tend not to realize I was interested in the first place. That said, don’t become as good as I am at it. It does pay to be reasonably good at it, tho, for your own convenience. Now. […]

Take rejection as a push toward your True Emotion Mirrors.

From now on, don’t think of a rejection as a “no, you can’t have what you want” but as a push toward your True Emotion Mirror: “I might look like the right thing, but no, you’re looking for THAT.” Still, a “rejection” is sometimes a plea for a little more time. “I know you’re the […]

True Emotion Mirror rejection – is it real?

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) will never reject you for real. That said, there is a good chance a person might THINK this sexy hot individual is their True Emotion Mirror when they’re simply not. A person unable or unwilling to contemplate the possibility that a rejection they experienced might be real rather than flirtation may […]

Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection.

This is something that the Old Souls* should know: Dog-Type Thinkers don’t fear rejection from strangers, but they’re terrified of losing an opportunity to make or keep a friend. Therefore, they’re hanging on if you seem uncertain about your rejection – just in case. A the Old Souls* doesn’t like to openly and coldly reject […]

A Rejection Junkie

A rejection junkie is a person who believes a rejection from someone they are genuinely interested in could not be real, but that it is only flirtation. A rejection junkie has narcissistic self-confidence in that not one person they’d want to get to know in one sense or another could reject them for reals. A […]

Why you shouldn’t give in to rejection junkies.

A rejection junkie is a person who cannot accept the idea that they have been rejected. They don’t BELIEVE they have been truly rejected, but they believe this person is toying with them, wants to get something more out of the relationship and thus positioning themselves for a negotiation, or most likely that they are […]

Unrequited love – how can you love so much more than the person you’re in love with?

You’d like to see yourself as someone who that person is in love with, but they do not like to be the kind of person who would be in love with you… In other words, your self-confidence improves when you look at yourself through that person; like someone who’d date that person. You like yourself […]

Rejection; the junkie, the fobic, and the elitist

To be fair, an elitist can be either the junkie or the phobic, and the idea of “superior” is at the core of all of these issues. Still, things will get complicated, when you add equality into the mix while there are still superiority-elements in people’s philosophy… And if there aren’t, there are no concept […]

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