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Why do the Idealists* hate rejection so much they give up on a True Emotion Mirror?

The Idealists* are often very well-liked people with a high self-confidence and higher than average IQ, which contributes to the feeling of being different and separated from others – why on earth would that make them accept rejection so easily and let go, when the normal reaction is to keep on trying hard, pestering, […]

One sided soulmate bond akan Enigma (unrequited love)

We always worry about whether our soulmate feels the same way toward us, whether we should hold onto hope at all, so here will be the answer to that burning question: What if this is completely one-sided and I am a lunatic? Tell you what, you are not a lunatic, but there is a good […]

True Emotion Mirrors and Rejection

First of all, let’s discuss why this issue must be discussed in massive detail. When a person meets their True Emotion Mirror, they may react in unexpected ways to this connection, because it is always a life-changing experience, particularly when meeting the first Mature State True Emotion Mirror. The TrEmor is such a person, that […]

True Emotion Mirror or a simple rejection junkie – here’s the key points

The first question that enters the mind of a True Emotion Mirror soon after they meet their other half is “Oh my god. I’m going crazy. I think they’re in love with me too? Are they in love with me? Am I imagining this?” They are always worried that they are projecting their own feelings, […]

Rejection and Playing Hard to Get

Here’s my dilemma: I look at myself in the mirror and I see the same face looking back at me every day. The same as all of us. I’m used to being who I am. When you see me for the first time, that’s the first time you’ve seen me. I’m used to me. When […]

How to learn to deal with rejection

Rejection is never pleasant, but there are ways to deal with it that makes it easier to take. This is not to ignore what happened, deny one’s own part of what happened, but to understand what rejection is and isn’t about. Rejection doesn’t mean you are a bad, unlovable, undesirable person. Rejection simply means you […]

How do you know if a rejection is real or a game?

There are people who toy with the people who they are interested in. They play games of all sorts, test their intended, challenge them, irritate them, try to push them away just to see if they’d call their bluff. It may be truly difficult to tell when a rejection is real and when it is […]

When Is a Rejection NOT a Rejection?

Rejection can be painful when it comes from someone who you thought would love you. While sometimes this is a real intent, too, there are plenty of situations where people simply misinterpret insecurity and fear for a rejection. This post is hopefully reassuring for those who are truly in love, and who are truly loved […]

How to get over a rejection?

If you are a monogamist, this should be easy for you. You know each one of us typically can only have ONE partner, ideally, for the rest of their lives. Think about that. The more wanted a person is, the more options they have to choose from to be that one single partner in this […]

The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]

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