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Soulmate connection: Is this unrequited love or is there hope?

There are a couple of questions to help you decide whether you are holding onto someone who is not your true love or whether you still have hope to have them in your life. Unrequited love can be painful, but is it hopeless? Also, true love doesn’t have to be painful, because emotional pain is […]

How does a rejection junkie think?

There are two different types of rejection junkies, and for a soulmate theorist like me, there is that annoying aspect of knowing that the behavior of a True Emotion Mirror* can make you think you are one, and knowing the way soulmates behave in reality may make a rejection junkie think that what they are […]

Unrequited love and how to get over someone

The process of getting over someone, especially if it was true love to begin with, is through the same process as getting your ex back: by learning to observe them to the level that you can no longer hide anything about them from yourself… And then let go…

The Warnings About Rejection and Running Behaviors

I write this blog painfully aware of two different thinker types prying on every word. One finds justification to keep harassing people who do not love them, the other nervously seeks for warning signs that they are doing just that – and stop when they haven’t even made it clear they’re interested. I am balancing between two extremes, so please keep this in mind as you go.

Inability to accept rejection maybe mistaken for undying love and is caused by entitlement issues

Again, be careful not to throw the baby out with the bath water with this thing, but a little bathing is necessary. People who take rejection with acceptance, are people who believe they will be able to live a happy and fruitful life independent of other people – although knowing someone would make them happier. Not being able to accept rejection is a sign of poor self-esteem and co-dependence.