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What flattering an inferior does to their self-esteem; their ego and their vos

We are all, every person everywhere, our own display of perfection. No matter how weird it may look to you, we’re all our own idea of the best of humanity. Don’t blame them – you’re the same. We change when our own idea of the ideal person changes, not a moment before. Therefore, technically, everybody […]

Is your True Emotion Mirror “insecure” to you? Are you projecting?

While I do want to remind you that people are not necessarily quite as confident as they seem – namely those who do hide it well – visible insecurity is probably not… Insecurity is a state of a person who knows he or she doesn’t NEED TO BE self-confident all the time. Someone whose parents […]

Ego & Vos – the stories you tell yourself about yourself and an other person.

New Age has somewhat warped idea of ego. They seem to think “ego” means “arrogance” or “separation”. It means neither, but both words speak of the ego of the person saying it. (If you want to stop reading here, watch your ego.) Everybody has got an ego, even the most zen people in this world […]

Your vos of people can be more what you want than what it actually is

You know what ego means; your idea of who you are, what I refers to in sentences you use. However, “vos” is Latin for “you”, and represents your idea of other people, and like ego, it can be false or truthful. What you say to yourself that another person in your life is like or […]

Power move: Building a HEALTHY false ego to change people’s vos

Yes, I understand! The idea of a healthy false ego is a contradiction in terms! It’s similar to terms like consensual rape or giving a guilty plea while maintaining innocence. Yet, sometimes, contradictions can work as a beautiful combination of things that shouldn’t exist in the same room, like pink and green. Building a healthy […]