You may have difficulty trusting the Universe or God to give you what you want. Alternatively, you may not trust other people to give you what you want. Those two things are the same thing, really, but “the Universe” has more people in it than the people in your life at the moment. Maybe you […]

I’ve always had trust issues. I’ve always told myself I’m too trusting, even when I don’t fully trust people. Not to do right by me, not to care about me, not to look out for me, that kind of stuff. Never asked them to, either. Never expected them to. But I realized that in doing […]

I don’t care who they are: they’re doing it. I’m doing it, you’re doing it, and people talking about you behind your back are doing it: presenting the situation favorably to themselves. They want you to like them, and they want you to be against their (fr)enemy, and they’re going to put their words so […]

You may be aware of situations when people fully twist the negative things they hear in person into positive things without fail. Someone says: “I hate you.” They seem to hear, “He loves me.” Sure, they HEARD him correctly; they heard him say, “I hate you,” but she figured he was teasing her and truly […]

Women can be… dramatic in their interpersonal relationships. Then, there are women who absolutely LOATHE this side of “being a woman.” If your girlfriend or wife seems perfectly reasonable to you, simple and easy to talk to and understand, for the love of God, don’t let her mom, sister, best friend, or another woman in […]