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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

You don’t need to be AFRAID of the things you’re warned about. You’re supposed to be AWARE of them.

When you’re in traffic, you are AWARE that you and your kids might die on this trip. You’re not afraid of it, you’re aware of the dangers, and you drive accordingly. Your awareness of the danger is good for everybody, your fear would be potentially a risk. You know eating sugar might kill you one […]

You might be surprised that you don’t have to coax men or women into a relationship or romance nearly as much as you thought…

Heterosexual people have this problem… Men don’t really understand why women would want men into romantic situations with them, because they, themselves, don’t, and straight women feel exactly the same way about women. Note, that closet homosexuals understand very well why THEIR gender is desirable, and therefore, they exude confidence in relationships with the opposite […]

People don’t need to like you, let alone love you, for you to have the right to exist.

While the Cat Type Thinking trauma is effectively being too loved or needed (because they’ve figured this out already), the Dog Type Thinking trauma is the lack of realization that they don’t need to be loved or even liked to have the right to exist (after being born). Anyone can be the biggest ahole in […]

Don’t worry, you’re not so hot that people will line up to meet your demands against their will. Trust me.

So I just found out that my True Emotion Mirror, who, to me, is the hottest thing in the world, doesn’t talk to me or other women about what he wants from women because he’s afraid women will jump into pleasing him… Successfully. Yes. The dude’s like ripped out of the cover of a romance […]

They don’t tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. XD

Dog Type Thinkers believe that love has to be returned. You love someone, they’re obligated to love you back. Therefore, if they love you, they may not tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. They may tell you anything except how they feel. Still, here’s one clue […]

Don’t ever imply to someone you’re in love with that you don’t want to hear from them.

If someone’s interest in you suddenly went cold… Check your messages. How many times have not answered a message because it wasn’t important? EVERY MESSAGE from your lover is important, asshole. If you imply to someone that you don’t want to hear from them, guess what they’re going to do, especially if they thought you […]

No, you don’t have to “will it into being” the Universe will bring it to you eventually.

You don’t need to worry about the Universe not knowing what you want in life. It knows. Your problem is us people. If all you want out of life is a monogamous marriage, a life in a house surrounded by a white picket fence, a golden retriever, and 2.3 children, you’re good. Nobody will fight […]

Don’t collaborate or accept help from people who do not understand or share your vision.

As much as they’d like to help, no matter how much they love you or no matter how much they WOULD love your vision if they understood it, if they don’t understand where you’re going, they can’t help you. They’ll derail you. Do you both (all) a favor and do your best to communicate your […]

You don’t like yourself? Why?

Here’s my first clue to you: You do like yourself; it’s just that the part of you that doesn’t like the other part disagrees strongly with something that you have done or were thought to be. However, if you were that kind of a person, you wouldn’t worry about it, the person you fear being […]

As a man, you’re used to being needed, but you don’t know what to do when you’re wanted.

This is not your fault. This is what you’re a victim of. I don’t need to victimize you, either, you’re a fucking survivor anyway, but what you need to do for yourself is to notice it. It is absolutely one of the key-issues True Emotion Mirrors face; your True Emotion Mirror, your true soul-bond lover […]

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