If you pulled this post up by random, the warning from the universe is that whomever the above image relates to is not fully visible to you. It’s not so much that they are hiding anything from you, but that not everything they are is your business. There are private things to them that you […]

What controls people is the fear of a negative label. That people will start attaching unflattering labels on you because of something they found out about you, something you did or didn’t do. Coward, loser, bail-out, quitter, gullible, conspiracy theorist, villain, rich bitch, home wrecker, player, shallow… Not a good man (very generic), not a […]

If you seem stuck in your life, perhaps your success is there, but it’s not fully realized; perhaps you can’t get off the ground at all; don’t worry; you’re not stupid; you’re a perfectionist. If you’ve decided that you want a perfect life, and it’s fine that you do, even if that wish isn’t fully […]

There are moments when you truly don’t care anymore. When you’ve just had enough. Proper enough. Then, there are those moments, when you still care, but you’re kind of afraid to care, you know? Because it doesn’t look that good. You fear you’ll be hurt if you get back in there, and you decide you’re […]

That’s a Dr. Phil quote, and he hit the nail on the head with that one. Winners are often frustrated and irritated by the laziness that “losers” show all the time, while simultaneously insisting that the perks putting in the long hours brings one person belongs to all people equally. The definition of an entitled […]