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Don’t trust people who are going to use you to impress someone else

If you’re in any way interesting high-profile person, even a high school popular kid or an Instagram model, there are going to be people who want to be your friend in order to impress someone else. You can tell if you pay a little attention to it, but you might not notice when you’re not […]

Don’t assume “female sexuality” equates with “lesbianism”

Lesbians don’t like to have sex with men. They find this idea rather repulsive. This has long been assumed to be the general consensus among women of all sexual orientations, but OBVIOUSLY, it doesn’t apply to heterosexual woman. People, other than straight women, tend to have this idea that “female sexuality” is a brand of […]

Young Thinkers* don’t fear rejection.

This is something that the Mature Thinkers* should know: Young Thinkers* don’t fear rejection from strangers, but they’re terrified of losing an opportunity to make or keep a friend. Therefore, they’re hanging on if you seem uncertain about your rejection – just in case. An Mature Thinker* doesn’t like to openly and coldly reject anyone. […]

Don’t respond.

Have you ever been in a situation (or how often have you been in a situation) where a person starts a conversation with you with a blatant and obnoxious mischaracterization of you or your values? Say, you wear a peace symbol on your T-shirt, and a person comes up to you and starts arguing that […]

Why the Mature Thinkers* don’t like the Young Thinker* willingness to adapt to anything.

the Young Thinker* will adapt to almost anyone and their wishes if that’ll get them a new friend. The Mature Thinkers* are flexible and open-minded up to a point, but their personality and personal values remain unchanged in new relationships. The Young Thinker*, when not fully accepted into any group yet, will remain in a […]

Don’t confuse the state of surrender with the state of submission.

There is a phase that Twin Flame theorists call the “state of surrender,” which is a True Emotion Mirror thing, too. The point when you surrender to the realization that you have, in fact, fallen in love permanently and that there is no fighting your own feelings of love and unity with this person. You […]

You don’t have to know what “women” want.

There is no such thing as “women” as a unified collective front. All you need to know is what THIS PARTICULAR woman wants; forget about the rest. She doesn’t care about the rest as long as there’s a man who says: “This is OK.” Insecure women band together to make sure one is no different […]

Don’t ask for more than what your love is worth.

Being loved is great, but you know what love also is? It’s very freaking expensive when it comes from a selfish person. “I love you; therefore, you owe me,” sort of way. So instead of feeling good, there is a point where these expressions of overwhelming adoration don’t raise gratitude anymore, but a question: “OK, […]

You don’t need to be an obedient person in order to be a good one… And definitely not in order to be the smart or perfect one.

No sane person wants to be forced into doing something they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. Not one. No sane person wants to force another person to do anything they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. There are, however, a lot of people, who are not all entirely sane, who want to force others to do […]

If you treat someone as if you don’t care, don’t be surprised if they think you don’t care.

A lot of us fear rejection. A lot of us react to a perceived rejection very poorly. We tend to start pretending like we don’t care, to protect our own view of self, but it’s not very smart. You can’t really blame a person for thinking you don’t care about them, if you’ve made a […]

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