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Why some people can’t trust nice people (and why nice people don’t care).

So. There are nice, kind people in this world who don’t have to TRY to be nice, even though they sometimes feel the pressure to pretend they like you more than they do; they simply ARE nice and well-intentioned. Their biggest joy is to make people happy, to uplift them, and to help people grow […]

Biggest Pickup Don’t’s

There are some really bad moves that people use at nightclubs when they try to hit on people. These are the EVEN IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO yet, STOP doing this -list! Don’t hit on EVERY member of the opposite (your target) gender in the room. People will notice even if you think […]

Signs you don’t know what love is.

When they don’t feel excited about the prospect of being with you, you blame them for a flaw instead of considering it may be you or that you are just not compatible. You feel the need to hang onto whatever attention a member of your preferred gender has given you (at any age before). You […]

Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about […]

When you feel they don’t trust you, they may not trust themselves.

There’s a point when something looks a bit too good to be true, you know? When your senses tell you that this person is in love with you, but you feel it would be a bit too amazing; you start questioning your own ability to see things straight. Maybe you’re telling yourself rose-colored stories, right? […]

When you want to know what men find attractive, don’t rely on women to tell you the truth.

Well… With exceptions. 😉 Women, as a gender, have always dictated what men HAVE TO find attractive about women, what they are ALLOWED TO feel attracted to. They sort of behave accordingly, but that doesn’t mean their NATURAL INSTINCT follows what they’re actually told to feel attracted to. If you want to know what men […]

Don’t be so keen on being a generous person that you’ll turn bitter forcing people around you to be selfish.

You know that for one person to be “a good person,” others around them must be bad. For you to be smart, others must be stupid. For you to be a hero, others must be victims. Think about this. Every time you want to be better than them, they have to be worse. Imagine this […]

Don’t hard-sell your friends or family members to another person.

You know what is the most annoying thing when you’re single, looking for a job, looking to collaborate with someone, or looking to hire? There’s always someone who knows “just the guy/girl” for you, and you already know 95% of those suggestions are going to be disappointing or completely off. The intention may be good, […]

It’s not so much they don’t want to answer your question, but they don’t understand the question.

Sometimes, it’s best to ask a question directly if you don’t seem to get an answer hinting to it. People often employ indirect ways to pose a question, but that question might go completely unnoticed if the other person is not aware of the question. If you’re not getting an answer beating around the bush, […]

When you no longer want it. You just don’t want it.

You know those situations when a person walks out of chemotherapy in the middle of it and against all possibilities, makes a full recovery? I don’t actually know if those stories are real, but I tend to believe them; when someone just gets sick of the sick and decides they don’t want it anymore… They’ll […]

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