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Don’t bother trying to fix other people; fix yourself so that flawed people can’t get to you anymore.

The power of working with the Free Spirit Theory is that you don’t have to coerce anyone else to go along with it for it to have a huge positive impact on your life. It doesn’t ask YOU to become more giving, caring, and self-sacrificing, but rather empower you to live fair; in moral selfishness: […]

Don’t fear depression quite that much.

Currently, depression is seen as quite a monster, but tones to can be a very productive state. Some sadness and feeling defeated or utterly disappointed is a grounding state where you can see things CLEARER without the glare of blinding optimism. Don’t feel panicked when you get there; indulge in it sometimes. Wallow in it […]

When you realize your compassion has FUCKED YOU OVER and now you don’t want anyone near you.

Don’t worry, you’ll get over it, is my first message – and you’ll get over it, WISER. You know you’re hurting because you’re putting barriers around yourself to protect yourself from the next manipulator. You fear your compassion and pity for others will make you let the wrong ones in again at the expense of […]

Don’t allow people to put too much emphasis on just one thing I’ve said.

When I have done my spiritual preparation for what’s to come, I’ve ran into some very insignificant aspects that are being lifted above other, FAR more important things. This is somewhat of an individual thing; something a teacher says scares you, and it takes a far too big portion of your understanding of what is […]

You don’t have to try and trick straight men/women into straight relationships.

I think both genders have this idea that the other gender would rather not deal with the other. There’s a backing of reality to it, and it’s a bit of a long story to share. I’ll get to that for those who want it, but for those who don’t, let’s just say this: Heterosexual and […]

Manage your fears – don’t suppress them.

A person who never fears anything is an idiot, you understand. Only an absolute fool would be fearless. A smart person knows that good intentions do not guarantee a good result, so it is good to fear one’s own stupidity and fallibility – if you’re smart. Now. Manage your fears. If you have something to […]

Insecurity is a sign you don’t know what you’re doing. That’s all.

If you are thinking of “taking a leap of faith” against your better judgment, or trying to talk yourself into putting all of your eggs into one basket or, I don’t know, jumping into a scary situation while feeling insecure, don’t. If your reasoning is that “others are doing it successfully, and it has paid […]

If you going to ravish a girl, don’t stop ravishing. ;)

Look, young men, women don’t have issues with a man who ravishes them. We have issues with men who start ravishing us and then stop ravishing us. The fact you want to ravish women doesn’t make you a bad guy, it’s the stopping that makes us want to call you bad names. 😀 If things […]

Don’t make promises to yourself or others on another person’s behalf.

Just saying: A promise you’ve made on behalf of another person is not a fucking promise. “One day, he’ll marry you, I promise.” Nah, he might not. “Deep down, she loves you.” Maybe she really doesn’t. “He’ll do the right thing.” Possibly his idea of the right thing doesn’t match yours. “She’ll come around.” Maybe […]

Worst idea ever: “Don’t give them attention, that’s what they want.”

If you LOVE SOMEONE, and they want your attention, for the LOVE OF GOD give them some. This advice, “Don’t give them attention because that’s what they’re after,” is applicable to people you genuinely don’t give a s*** about or don’t want to be attached to for the rest of your life. If someone needs […]

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