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Are you turning away from it because you don’t like how good it makes you feel?

Our ego is our idea of who we are. Whatever we mean when we use the word “I” to describe it. “I am.” The sum of everything that makes up for the word “I,” both positive and negative, true and false. Everybody has an ego; it’s just that the FALSE ego should be removed. Your […]

Never silence people you love, even if they’re saying things you don’t love hearing.

This is the tricky bit about love: it has to be real. And the one way to force yourself into fake relationships is to NOT LISTEN to your partner, friends, or family members. The fact is that A LOT OF RELATIONSHIPS function on the power of not listening to each other. You stop talking, or […]

What you feel pressured to do is something you don’t want to do.

Whenever we feel “pressured” to do something, it signals something we don’t wan to do or be. That sounds pretty obvious but still, we feel compelled to do so, against our better judgment. Whenever we experience the same action from others, but it’s about something we WANT TO DO, we feel encouraged, supported, liberated, even […]

Don’t fight uninvited guests out of your head if you’re psychic/in a telepathic True Emotion Mirror state.

The old advice: “Ignore them, and they’ll go away,” seems to apply here. When someone you don’t want around comes to you for attention, the one thing they can hold over your head is the very unwelcomeness of their stay. They’re also fighting for their lives here; by trying to push them away, you’re effectively […]

Don’t talk people up too much… K?

You may have a habit of talking people up to other people hoping to sway them to join the fan club, so to speak. This can, however, have counterproductive effects, especially in the Mature Thinkers* who don’t like bandwagons of any kind. They don’t like liking people they’re told to like and are much more […]

Don’t assume beautiful people don’t get bullied.

There is one thing you should probably understand about beautiful people; they get bullied. A lot. Often by their own parents, but that’s a topic of its own. (Just think of a parent with a narcissistic personality disorder watching a gorgeous teenager develop to take his or her place in the pecking order. A child […]

“I don’t believe” is an enormously powerful statement.

“You just have to believe it” is a powerful thing, yes, but if you struggle to believe something, it’s very very difficult to convince yourself that you do. It is a lot easier to state that you don’t believe something… than it is to state that you do. Think of this: “I believe I am […]

Don’t marry hoping to save the relationship.

If you marry (or have children) hoping to salvage the relationship by doing that, you’re trying to fix a small mistake of getting into a relationship with the wrong person with a huge mistake of committing (to start a family) with the wrong person. You’re trying to fix a problem with a bigger problem. We’ve […]

You don’t need to have everyone else jump with you if you want to jump.

You may have a need and a habit to want to make everyone else agree with your personal choices before you feel free to do it yourself. If it’s legal, you can do it without others’ approval, let me assure you. If it’s your personal life choice, you don’t need public support for it. What […]

Don’t argue with a person about who or what label they should use to describe themselves.

When you read my website, you may become really good at noticing the signs of a type of a person. You may realize that OMG, dude, you’re bisexual, not straight! Or that your girlfriend is actually polygynous, not straight, that your co-worker is dog-type, whatever. Lots of definitions on my website. It is not a […]

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