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Don’t argue with a person about who or what label they should use to describe themselves.

When you read my website, you may become really good at noticing the signs of a type of a person. You may realize that OMG, dude, you’re bisexual, not straight! Or that your girlfriend is actually polygynous, not straight, that your co-worker is dog-type, whatever. Lots of definitions on my website. It is not a […]

You don’t have to know how. Let the Universe worry about “the plan”.

You do what you do best. You do what you enjoy. You do what you know. Let the Universe handle what you don’t know. It’ll get you the right people at the right time if you are working on anything bordering on important. Trust the process. If you are currently feeling uncertain about whether you’re […]

People who fear being generous love people who don’t want or need anything from them.

The following will be a little confusing. The point of it is; that the give and take must go both ways; take and give, give and take – the balance must be equal. Now: I wouldn’t say people who fear being generous are selfish, per se, but they may be afraid of how giving they […]

Why do people work so hard on their own business, don’t they have enough money yet?

They say “an overnight success takes on average 10 years of devoted, hard work (without pay)”… Sometimes it takes more than that. The irony is in what seems to others like an overnight success, to the person achieving it, it’s been years of grueling work without looking at the watch while working. Whether it is […]

The Idealists* don’t really care how much you want them (or the job they have on offer)

This is something the Survivalist* don’t necessarily understand about the Idealists*; The Idealists* don’t care if you’d bring them the moon of the sky by morning if they don’t GENUINELY want you. You CANNOT serve your way into the heart of a Idealists*, you cannot wear down you knees to prove […]

If they won’t stop nagging, tell them you’re going to do it… But don’t!

So you’ve said “no” to something for the millionth time. They won’t listen to you, not no matter how many ways you’ve explained why you can’t. They keep on asking or nagging or guilt-tripping you to. Here’s how to get out of it. You say “OK”. You’re going to do it. You’ll be there. Whatever. […]

the Idealists* thinkers don’t want servants or weak links.

the Idealists* believe in equality in relationships. This means that they want their friends to be equal in their abilities, but more importantly, equal in their willingness to take part in any activities they get themselves into. They don’t want to force anyone into doing anything with them; they want no servant vibes coming […]

When I kiss a normal person, I don’t think they even know *what* they are kissing.

This question was given to me through a psychic process to answer, and I have to say I would have NEVER thought to answer this without it. But I get it. I got to the feeling straight away and I must say “wow”. Not a great feeling. The person asking is a female, and the […]

It is good to know, that others don’t do the same thing for the same motivations.

The remark may seem a little obvious: not everybody does the same thing out of the same motivations. We don’t all start a business for one same singular goal, we don’t have kids for the same reasons, we don’t all get married for the same reason. We don’t go to school or befriend people out […]

the Idealists* don’t change FOR YOU they change DESPITE you.

When the Idealists* “change” what is actually happening is that as they become more self-aware, they’ll make that awareness seen on the outside. The Idealists* like to show everything that they are at once, and they can drop previous habits and expectations that they felt raised into and pressured into, rather than what […]

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