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the Survivalist* don’t know you don’t like them – and there’s no way of telling them.

Now, I assume you’re a Idealists*… I hope my Universe-driven random engine has led you to the right place. Um… The Survivalist* don’t know you don’t like them, and I don’t know any way to inform them of the matter. The good thing about this is that if you think they don’t like […]

Don’t try to love everything about everybody you know.

You know what makes it really difficult for people to get along? If you try too hard to love EVERYTHING about another person… You can’t. You can ONLY do that with your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates, and even then, there will probably be some issues here and there. None of us is perfect, […]

Don’t rush into things!

Please, stop to think before you act. You don’t have to make massive decisions just now. You are not being cowardly or “uncommitted”, in fact, sometimes you’re being foolish and uncommitted to the thinking and considering part. First, figure things out in your head – especially if a lot of people depend on you – […]

Quiet and shy people don’t exist.

There is something you need to understand: Even if you’re known someone for A LONG TIME doesn’t mean you know them well. If that person is “the quiet type” you don’t know what they’re thinking in there. There are people who think only when they speak, and that there is no internal dialogue going on […]

Why slam-shut closed relationships don’t work?

If you seek commitment, try not to forget that relationships can be broken. Divorce is still a real thing. This is the reason: When you commit to someone with absolutely NO WAY OUT the only risk you’re facing now is that THIS won’t work, and you’re stuck. Then, your full focus goes into TRYING to […]

Stop with your insistence and your demands. I don’t care who you are, you aren’t that important.

You are one of 8 billion people. You deserve no extra share. What you’ll get, you will “pay for” by being a nice person. At that, you’re not doing great at the moment. You don’t get to go around in this world without giving anything to anyone except demands and insistence that you deserve the […]

Don’t overthink it – go with your biggest rush.

Generally, you should always follow your biggest temptation, your biggest crush, your “I WANT IT/HIM/HER” -feeling. Only when the object of your desire has a mind of his or her own and tells you “no” should you slow down before you ruin your entire relationship with them. (You can also say yes to people you […]

You hate them, don’t want them, but let them in anyway.

If you picked this post randomly, the advice you’re seeking is the opposite of what you’re doing: let them in emotionally. Don’t fight their feelings; let them love you, but don’t think that means you must love them back. Let them pour their love on you and do whatever they feel they need to do […]

You don’t have to be a good person in order to be with your True Emotion Mirror

(This also applies to Twin Flames, despite the fact the teachers would disagree.) You are the perfect half of your True Emotion Mirror. This doesn’t mean you are a perfect person or even a good person. You can be the worst person in history and still have a True Emotion Mirror, or, if you want […]

Don’t assume Libertines* know you love them.

Self-confidence doesn’t come from the fact that this person knows they are loved; it comes from knowing they’ll survive even if nobody did. They know love is not a measure of how good of a person you are, it’s a measure of personal taste. They don’t take it as an offense if someone doesn’t love […]

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