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Phrase it this way: “I don’t like that image of me being portrayed to the outside world.”

If you have to deal with a narcissist who keeps representing you incorrectly as a favor to you, they may lie about you in public. You may have tried to tell them that you don’t like it, because “that’s not who you are.” To a narcissist, who you are means nothing. It’s nobody’s business who […]

Don’t regulate your emotions or feelings, rather, control your understanding of the situation and enhance self-confidence and self-esteem.

Your feelings and emotions are always right, but you don’t always know what they’re reporting. What is upsetting you is your current understanding of the situation rather than the situation itself. For instance, you’ve decided that any remark about your appearance is an insult to you as a woman. You get an automatic alert when […]

If you want to help your friend get together with their TrEmoR, don’t over-sell them.

Reverse the roles. Imagine the friend of someone you have a crush on coming to you constantly to encourage you to talk to or take their friend on a date. They keep talking this guy or girl up, he or she is so special, smart, whatever. Even if all of those things sounded perfect, don’t […]

How not to get unnecessarily/accidentally raped. (Don’t hit on men you don’t want to sleep with.)

I’m not saying that rape is a woman’s fault. What I’m saying is that a woman can be so naive she casts an innocent guy as a rapist. I’m saying you shouldn’t be so naive that you turn normal men into rapists. This is what your mom should have taught you: There are women who […]

Don’t ask another woman how to love your True Emotion Mirror.

Look. I know it’s difficult to accept. This person is your perfect counterpart. For as long as you try to love her the way that a generic woman is loved, you’ll get it wrong. You have to love her like you’d love your perfect counterpart. You don’t have to convince yourself that some basic person […]

If you want a relationship not based on sex, don’t use sex to get it.

Enough said.

Don’t act superior, it doesn’t fucking suit you.

(Taroty.) Natural submissives may act dominantly and superiorly because they admire dominant and superior people. They don’t realize that dominant and superior people are that way because they CANNOT submit. Submission to them is poison; they’ll do whatever it takes to remain superior without fighting for the position. A natural dominant may fear their need […]

You don’t always have to be the one to take the high road.

Although being a grown up in any relationship means that you have to meet people half way and give them a chance to apologize, smooth things over, and to be a nice person, you don’t have to always be the bigger person or the one who always has to take the high road. You have […]

If they don’t fight for their space, they are likely not planning to stay.

This is something for you to understand; if you feel someone who seems very capable and strong isn’t fighting for their space, the likelihood is that they have no intentions of staying where they are. If they don’t try to improve you, they’re not planning on staying with you. If they are not working on […]

You don’t know who you are until you know what group of people you want to make happy.

Heterosexuals should feel the need to make the opposite gender happy. Homosexuals wish to make the same gendered people and the gay section of those people happy. You may want to make children happy, animals, you name it, but to know who you wish to serve is to know who you are. When the service […]

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