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Don’t worry, you’re not so hot that people will line up to meet your demands against their will. Trust me.

So I just found out that my True Emotion Mirror, who, to me, is the hottest thing in the world, doesn’t talk to me or other women about what he wants from women because he’s afraid women will jump into pleasing him… Successfully. Yes. The dude’s like ripped out of the cover of a romance […]

They don’t tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. XD

Survivalists* believe that love has to be returned. You love someone, they’re obligated to love you back. Therefore, if they love you, they may not tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. They may tell you anything except how they feel. Still, here’s one clue that […]

Don’t ever imply to someone you’re in love with that you don’t want to hear from them.

If someone’s interest in you suddenly went cold… Check your messages. How many times have not answered a message because it wasn’t important? EVERY MESSAGE from your lover is important, asshole. If you imply to someone that you don’t want to hear from them, guess what they’re going to do, especially if they thought you […]

No, you don’t have to “will it into being” the Universe will bring it to you eventually.

You don’t need to worry about the Universe not knowing what you want in life. It knows. Your problem is us people. If all you want out of life is a monogamous marriage, a life in a house surrounded by a white picket fence, a golden retriever, and 2.3 children, you’re good. Nobody will fight […]

Don’t collaborate or accept help from people who do not understand or share your vision.

As much as they’d like to help, no matter how much they love you or no matter how much they WOULD love your vision if they understood it, if they don’t understand where you’re going, they can’t help you. They’ll derail you. Do you both (all) a favor and do your best to communicate your […]

You don’t like yourself? Why?

Here’s my first clue to you: You do like yourself; it’s just that the part of you that doesn’t like the other part disagrees strongly with something that you have done or were thought to be. However, if you were that kind of a person, you wouldn’t worry about it, the person you fear being […]

As a man, you’re used to being needed, but you don’t know what to do when you’re wanted.

This is not your fault. This is what you’re a victim of. I don’t need to victimize you, either, you’re a fucking survivor anyway, but what you need to do for yourself is to notice it. It is absolutely one of the key-issues True Emotion Mirrors face; your True Emotion Mirror, your true soul-bond lover […]

Phrase it this way: “I don’t like that image of me being portrayed to the outside world.”

If you have to deal with a narcissist who keeps representing you incorrectly as a favor to you, they may lie about you in public. You may have tried to tell them that you don’t like it, because “that’s not who you are.” To a narcissist, who you are means nothing. It’s nobody’s business who […]

Don’t regulate your emotions or feelings, rather, control your understanding of the situation and enhance self-confidence and self-esteem.

Your feelings and emotions are always right, but you don’t always know what they’re reporting. What is upsetting you is your current understanding of the situation rather than the situation itself. For instance, you’ve decided that any remark about your appearance is an insult to you as a woman. You get an automatic alert when […]

If you want to help your friend get together with their TrEmoR, don’t over-sell them.

Reverse the roles. Imagine the friend of someone you have a crush on coming to you constantly to encourage you to talk to or take their friend on a date. They keep talking this guy or girl up, he or she is so special, smart, whatever. Even if all of those things sounded perfect, don’t […]

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