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Why you should not endeavor to “try to be friendly/friends” with people who you don’t really like

We are kind of taught to be accepting and make friends with everybody, and that we should try to broaden our minds and try not to be too prejudicial about who we hang out with, but I’m saying maybe you should be. The thing is, that when you extent that olive branch to someone, they […]

Why you might actually want to not use excuses when people invite you over and you don’t want to go

There are people who love socializing so much, that they would NEVER use an excuse to get out of a social engagement. They also love all people and all company so much, that they don’t think ANYONE in their RIGHT MIND would EVER MAKE UP a reason to not go. Therefore, if you’re “sooooo busy” […]

Let go of things you don’t want

Let go of things and people you REALLY don’t want. (You know these.) Let go of things and people you don’t really want. (A little harder to figure out.)

Your romantic pessimism is the glimmer of hope to the one you don’t want

Let’s just say this… Some people are walking lie detectors. The problem is, a lie detector cannot tell what is the truth or what is the source of the feeling of “I’m lying” or “there’s an error in the statement”. It simply flags “a lie”. Some people listen to you like this. And then further […]

Don’t confuse your circumstance (or the people around you) for who you are

There are people who assume that the urge to “accept who you are” means the same thing as “accept your circumstance for what it is” or “accept the company you keep for who you are”. I could NEVER say ANYTHING that stupid and depressing! You are whatever you are. Your circumstance is whatever you are. […]

“I don’t care what you think of me” what does it mean?

People, when trying to adjust to each other’s social circles try to moralize each other to make each other adjust to the group. There are people, who, despite this, declare “I don’t care what you think of me”. This rarely helps, but the moralizing will keep ongoing. What we mean when we say; “I don’t […]

“I don’t like you because you get to do X, while I’m not allowed to”

I am not entirely sure where the idea comes from, that in a civilized society something that others are allowed to do is banned from a person because they… Are something? Not pretty? Gay? Trans? While this may be partially true when laws don’t allow certain groups to marry, MOST OF IT is purely between […]

Don’t RUSH emotions. No matter what.

You won’t love a person until you do. You might never. You won’t feel safe, secure, and able to do it until you are. Don’t take a leap of faith until you have faith. You can’t trust yourself until you know what you’re doing. Bravery is badly fitted with incompetence. Don’t pretend to not be […]

Blind Trust vs. Earned Trust – Don’t feel quilt for not having blind trust

If you are like me, you feel guilty for not having blind trust in people or your spirit guides, even. You feel IMPOLITE for not trusting people or your spirit guides, God, or your plain good luck with your life. TRUST is learned over time. It requires PROOF. Demanding someone to trust them blindly is […]

For those of you who don’t believe you’ve been truly rejected

OK, I’ve done some work here to explain the difference between a True Emotion Mirror fake rejection that is really just a temporary runner, and a REAL rejection by someone who is truly not interested in having a (continued) relationship with you. It seems that there is still a will to not accept that sometimes […]

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