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Friday, June 29th, 2018 at
1:53 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: education, Idealists*, Self-Worth, Thinker Type, warnings, Survivalist*
The Survivalist* value clear “boxes”. They appreciate a clear set of instructions that take them from point A to point B… Or Z, depending on their ambition. However, the Idealists* don’t find this challenging, at the same time as they find it impossible to do. Intellectually, they would be more than capable of […]
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Saturday, May 19th, 2018 at
11:13 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Soulmate, warnings
Written for: Both good looking people (encouragement) and the unattractive people (reality check). Many people don’t agree on how much looks matter in a relationship. Those to whom they matter are constantly feeling guilty and evasive about how much looks matter to them, so it seems that the “looks don’t matter” crowd is winning. But […]
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Saturday, May 19th, 2018 at
10:29 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: warnings
There are people who believe they can get anything as long as they persist hard and long enough. This may be true in some cases like getting the dream job they want, but true love or the true respect of your colleagues are rarely, if ever, achieved like this. The strong chasers come onto another […]
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Wednesday, May 16th, 2018 at
2:15 pm in Australia - Last edit on
March 30, 2024 Tags: warnings
All people test love somehow. This is my own test that I’ve always done knowingly, so I know how this type of a person thinks. This is not the best method, at all, but it is one I have been inclined to use, for better or worse, out of my own fears. By writing this, […]
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Tuesday, February 13th, 2018 at
10:38 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions, Thinker Type, warnings, Survivalist*
I started drafting a post because I finally made a breakthrough with the Survivalist*. As I was writing this post, I hit a wall again. I decided to publish this anyway because this is freaking interesting how IMPOSSIBLE it is to communicate with the Survivalist*!! The original post the Survivalist* hate change. […]
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Saturday, December 23rd, 2017 at
12:55 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: friends, love, warnings
We’ve all been taught to be friends with everyone and to aim for universal love. However, I have come to the conclusion that this is not a great way to do things. It’s actually AWFUL. This virtue creates most of the unhappiness we feel every single day of our lives. There is a point to […]
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Wednesday, November 8th, 2017 at
1:31 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism, Thinker Type, warnings, Survivalist*
From the Idealists*’s perspective, the Survivalist* are insufferably narcissistic. To be fair, they feel the same way about us. (I’m a Idealists*, of course.) When you tell them that you don’t love them, they hear you say that you have an emotional issue that you don’t know how to fix, and you’re […]
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Wednesday, September 20th, 2017 at
2:59 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: warnings
There are women who do not like feminism for very good reasons. Not because they are run down by it, but because they see what it is doing to men and strong women, and how it is truly turning power on its head. What I mean by that, is that feminism is starting to force […]
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Thursday, April 20th, 2017 at
6:40 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions, love, Thinker Type, warnings, Survivalist*
When you are somehow trapped in a relationship with someone without being able to really break it off, one way to tell them that you don’t want them anymore is to start changing your look towards someone who you are actually inspired by. The more drastic the change, the better. We always want to look […]
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Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017 at
6:53 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism, warnings
I am hiding this post from the Survivalist*, who are also masters of mimicking emotions once they know what the Idealists* are after – on the surface, at least. Some people are profoundly competitive over the affections of popular, well-liked people. They don’t necessarily understand WHY this person is popular, but they certainly […]
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