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I don’t know what he wants, should I still break up with my current partner?

This question is asked often enough to make me gasp… There’s a saying I heard once that describes this situation: “A woman is like a monkey; she will never let go of a branch until she has a hold of another branch.” Now, the question whether you should leave your current partner if you are […]

Worried about being a commitment phobic? Don’t be.

Has anyone ever told you that you’re too picky for your own good, you’ll never find someone like that, you’ll end up with scrap if you keep rejecting perfectly datable people? If they have, don’t panic. You may be instinctively searching or consciously waiting for your True Emotion Mirror (or you might found several of […]

What if you don’t want to be what you are?

I am going to tell you a personal story to illuminate the point, it is so fresh in my mind that I can’t really generalize it quite yet, but I am sure this will awaken a few new pathways in some of you. My life went from exciting to fairly boring when I started to kick […]

The annoying people who you think you love but don’t

In many ways, relationship advice from both professionals and your friends and family attempt to mimic the True Emotion Mirror relationship on the surface. What happens naturally with a True Emotion Mirror, relationship advice is either aiming or mistaken to mimic it in order to make true love happen. A lot of relationship advice then […]

“Learning” spirituality; don’t expect to be spoon fed

I just had the best thing happen. And this is stupid because I should be excited about THIS part, but I am. For years now I’ve been telling this one guy in the spirit that mate, I love you, but I don’t know what is wrong, I can’t LOVE you. I just don’t know what […]

Artists and the like: Why don’t we support each other on our way up?

This bothers me. I am no different. I look at a friend’s artwork on Facebook and won’t even click ‘like’. She’s talented. She’s really good, in fact. I like the painting, I genuinely do… But I won’t click ‘like’. I like everyone’s bullshit updates all the time, but why not hers? I have no difficulty […]

Part 9: You don’t have to do s***.

OK. THEY will kill me for this. This is something that I have struggled to trust myself. You don’t have to do jack s*** to make your goal. That doesn’t mean that you have to sit passively doing nothing, it simply means that when you do something, do something that feels right and inspiring. If […]

Why your “Don’t want” energy attracts what you don’t want

“The last thing I want is to wind up like my parents.” Right? Or… “The last thing I want is to wind up doing….” And, what you see is that the only opportunities available to you are exactly this. Why? People who you don’t want can have a very strong wish to prove you wrong. […]

The Warnings About Rejection and Running Behaviors

I write this blog painfully aware of two different thinker types prying on every word. One finds justification to keep harassing people who do not love them, the other nervously seeks for warning signs that they are doing just that – and stop when they haven’t even made it clear they’re interested. I am balancing between two extremes, so please keep this in mind as you go.

Externalizing the reasons for your separation so you don’t need to be accountable

The Twin Flame theory is full of externalizations. It THRIVES externalizing. It takes the blame off you and moves it onto the runner, karma, the Universe, the situation. Twin Flame concept will blame anything but you to make sure we all believe it was IMPOSSIBLE for the relationship to work in the first place and […]

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