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What you can’t say to his face don’t say at all…

…even if it was “I love you”. I am a writer. I firmly believe I can express myself better in writing and that I will get better results if I write people than what I would do if I said it to them in person. I hate to say that this is not true, in […]

Don’t mistake descriptions of soul bond love for how-to -guides

Again the moral of this story is the same as always: Be intuitive, don’t force things and aim to become your authentic self by differentiating between outside influence and your own true core and emotions.

May the best man win (don’t choose for her)

Gentlemen are said to have gone extinct, but they have not. They are either put under the thumb or they exist in a self-sacrificing mode of masculinity that stems from the idea “I am flawed, and should not burden the woman I love with my hopes”. This may be difficult to see on the outside […]

You don’t have to trust people when you trust yourself

Often we wonder if we should trust a person or not. This is an interesting question, because it comes down to the question, that do you trust yourself to handle whatever the other person, in the worst case scenario, can throw your way? Are you smart enough to see it coming, and if you are […]

Don’t worry about worrying: stop manipulating your own feelings

Authentic living from the soul means much more than just positive thinking or “keeping positive”. Surrendering to the soul means accepting all human emotions, not only those that we deem “positive”. (There is nothing wrong in its right place.)

Quick Self-Improvement Tip: Don’t fight your emotions

You know that feeling when you try to fight the thought of having to pay your bills or the worry you feel about this, that or the other? You try to push the fears out of your mind and tell yourself it doesn’t matter? You have a nagging feeling that someone doesn’t like you, but […]

Don’t mistake your confusion to be that of mine.

With anything that is more complicated than 1,2,3, there’s always someone who thinks number 4 doesn’t exist. Those of us, that see number 4 clearly as well as 5 and 6, may look utterly confused to those who can only see the 1,2,3 – but who is the one who is confused?