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How not to get unnecessarily/accidentally raped. (Don’t hit on men you don’t want to sleep with.)

I’m not saying that rape is a woman’s fault. What I’m saying is that a woman can be so naive she casts an innocent guy as a rapist. I’m saying you shouldn’t be so naive that you turn normal men into rapists. This is what your mom should have taught you: There are women who […]

Don’t ask another woman how to love your True Emotion Mirror.

Look. I know it’s difficult to accept. This person is your perfect counterpart. For as long as you try to love her the way that a generic woman is loved, you’ll get it wrong. You have to love her like you’d love your perfect counterpart. You don’t have to convince yourself that some basic person […]

If you want a relationship not based on sex, don’t use sex to get it.

Enough said.

Don’t act superior, it doesn’t fucking suit you.

(Taroty.) Natural submissives may act dominantly and superiorly because they admire dominant and superior people. They don’t realize that dominant and superior people are that way because they CANNOT submit. Submission to them is poison; they’ll do whatever it takes to remain superior without fighting for the position. A natural dominant may fear their need […]

You don’t always have to be the one to take the high road.

Although being a grown up in any relationship means that you have to meet people half way and give them a chance to apologize, smooth things over, and to be a nice person, you don’t have to always be the bigger person or the one who always has to take the high road. You have […]

If they don’t fight for their space, they are likely not planning to stay.

This is something for you to understand; if you feel someone who seems very capable and strong isn’t fighting for their space, the likelihood is that they have no intentions of staying where they are. If they don’t try to improve you, they’re not planning on staying with you. If they are not working on […]

You don’t know who you are until you know what group of people you want to make happy.

Heterosexuals should feel the need to make the opposite gender happy. Homosexuals wish to make the same gendered people and the gay section of those people happy. You may want to make children happy, animals, you name it, but to know who you wish to serve is to know who you are. When the service […]

It’s not that they don’t feel sympathy for you, they just can’t help you.

You can’t ask for something that doesn’t exist. Now you have been begging for something you cannot have, because that person you want it from doesn’t have it for you (love?) and you just have to get over it. It doesn’t help that you act pathetic and beg for mercy, they couldn’t help you if […]

It might not be that they don’t believe that you love them… (Maybe they don’t care that you do.)

I am in a funny position with this question myself, which is why I may offer a bit too many sour grapes here, but the thing is… Just because a person seems to ignore your love confessions doesn’t mean that they don’t believe that you love them…. They might not care. There are people who […]

You don’t (always) need to care about how someone treated their ex. You’re not their ex.

There are people who are systematically violent with all of their friends and loved ones. This is not what I speak of. There are also people who are matter-of-factly cheaters. People also have a relationship strategy that they tend to follow, but when it comes to their True Emotion Mirror, everything changes. When a person […]

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