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Don’t be ashamed of the way you allow/want men/women to treat you. We all have our kinks.

The way one woman wants her men is different from the way other women want their men. Some women don’t want men at all, and that’ll change the way they react to things that are done to other women by men. The way I want men to treat me because it turns me on like […]

You don’t need a reason to break off a friendship.

If you don’t want to be a friend to someone, that is all the reason you need. If they were a good friend to you, you would want to be their friend. If you were their friend, you wouldn’t want to not be one. The fact you don’t want to be friends with them means […]

If you feel jealous of your TrEmoR, don’t worry. They don’t.

You don’t have to worry about being jealous about your True Emotion Mirror. If they actually are one, they don’t care if you’re jealous. They want what you want, and your jealousy is exactly what they want… Maybe there’s a point where it’s going to be too much, and there’s certainly a danger that you’ve […]

Don’t worry, we don’t judge you for your failed relationships, dear celebs.

While in the 1950’s, celebrity divorces may have made people gasp in horror, Gen X or anyone younger won’t give a f*** anymore. We get it. Most of our relationships are just as messy these days, just not front-page news. XD

“Kids” don’t need to be spanked, the Dog Thinker(s)* -type of kids may need to be, however.

There are two types of people in this world, and these types are in-born. Old Soul* kids do not need to be spanked – they know, deep down, it is possible they are not loved and that their parents may even hate them, so they are not going to be testing their boundaries too much. […]

Depression: Don’t seek happiness, seek interesting things and feelings.

Happiness is such a difficult concept to be looking for. Instead, look for interesting things and feelings. Try to find anything interesting to do that gets your brain working. Interesting feelings can come from anywhere, including cutting, right? Just don’t cut because it’s just a little too desperate for a tiny problem like finding interesting […]

But I don’t want you to have any secrets from me…

Dear the Dog Thinker(s)*. There’s a problem with the way you do things sometimes. You FORCE people to LIE to you. “I don’t want you to have any secrets from me,” you may coo. He tells you: “I actually have a daughter with a married woman.” “I don’t want to hear that! EWWW!” You have to […]

Don’t know how to approach people? Who to approach?

Popular people are rarely a good place to go looking for a good friend if you’re socially anxious. While they are well-liked, they’re also well busy, and they can also be picky and expect you to be equally easy-going with people. They tend to have very little understanding of the reasons for being socially awkward, […]

Don’t force The Cat Thinker(s)* into a relationship nor The Dog Thinker(s)* out of it.

The Dog Thinker(s)* feel the need to prove or to be proven that they are “serious” about the relationship by insisting upon it. The Cat Thinker(s)* need you to be the best, most amazing person they can imagine ever winding up with to fall in love with you and to keep a relationship going with you. Now, […]

I don’t think you can brag so much you’ll put off your True Emotion Mirror.

While modesty and humility are good traits when dealing with OTHER people, with your True Emotion Mirror, I don’t think you can brag so much you’d put them off you. They may start cringing when you do your best bragging, but I don’t think you can do it so much they’ll completely fall out of […]

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