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I don’t think you need to “believe” in anything that is true. Belief starts nothing but placebo.

You either know or you believe. One is reliable; the other is not, not quite. There’s always doubt in belief. You can never KNOW what you only believe. I don’t think truth needs faith or belief at all. If it is true, it’s true, and that’s all there is to it. I don’t need to […]

Don’t protect your “love” by not looking at them with your eyes open. You might be in love with the real thing and not even know it, you moron.

When you go through a few of these moments, you know you’ve pinned your hope on someone special, and it all turns out to be a big fantasy; you may feel fear about committing to anyone – the better it looks, the scarier it can get. The thing I want you to start doing, with […]

Sometimes, it’s just best you don’t know who and where your True Emotion Mirror is.

Imagine your True Emotion Mirror is working on something that you mutually agree is for the higher good. Maybe on your own personal development, maybe something more global. Whatever it is, you have decided, as a couple, that you need to be separated for this. Now, imagine this work will take years. Would you even […]

You don’t need to hold onto your True Emotion Mirror.

A True Emotion Mirror is not “yours” in the same way a dog is yours. You cannot put a leash on your True Emotion Mirror and tell everyone that this is your TrEmoR, keep away. (Well, you can if you’re into BDSM, but you know what I mean. :D) True Emotion Mirrors are not SIGNED […]

the Ravens* don’t have flings.

“A fling,” by Google’s definition, is “a short period of enjoyment or wild behavior,” typically an intentionally short sexual relationship with someone. I felt the need to define the word, even though I understand it; as a Ravens*, I’ve never needed to use the word in a sentence before. We don’t do those… Or […]

Why some people don’t want to be “special”?

Everybody wants to fit in, but what “fitting in” means to different people is another thing. For the Young Soul* “fitting in” means they want to be just like other people – to not stand out from the crowd. To a Ravens*, “fitting in” means finding a special place for themselves, somewhere where they […]

Do you owe people your company, you ask?! No. No you don’t.

You may have an entertainer-syndrome. When you feel that your company is so precious and charming that you owe it to anyone who wants it for as long as they want it for. Yeah, whatever. Get over yourself. Nobody is that important, charming, and precious that they cannot be given a moment alone… Or weeks… […]

Don’t worry, you are not irreplaceable.

I want you to realize something about yourself. You are cool and all, but you’re not the only cool person in your own gender around. You don’t need to be the love-object to everyone who feels that way; they’ll move on. They can find another. There may not be anyone like you, but there’ll be […]

“I don’t love you” means “I don’t want to be with you” not “I’m not fulfilling my end of the bargain.”

the Young Soul* may understand “I don’t love you” as an apology: “I am not doing enough to make you safe and secure.” Therefore, a conversation like this can take place: the Ravens*: “I don’t love you. We need to break up.” the Young Soul*: “It’s OK, I love you. We don’t need to […]

You don’t stop being smart if you do “dumb things.”

Intelligence is largely marked by curiosity and the capacity to imagine. This then often leads to things that normal people would call childish or stupid. That said, even if you enjoy “dumb things” it doesn’t mean you suddenly stop being intelligent. If you know yourself to be intelligent, you don’t have to “hold onto your […]

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