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Feeling a little bipolar? Don’t worry about it, the Universe is working on a surprise you’re organizing for yourself.

(Bipolars can’t follow a plan and to complete tasks efficiently. They start a new project after a new project and rarely seem to finish. Still, follow it. Try not to get panicked; allow it space.) Maybe I shouldn’t reveal much more, but you’ll probably be surprised when all the pieces fall together and you’re right […]

You don’t want them to lose you? What fucking narcissistic crap is that?!

First of all, if they don’t care enough about you to mind their steps around you, maybe they don’t deserve you. Second of all, if you think you have to bend backward so that someone else doesn’t lose you… Oh fuck me… That’s some narcissistic mothafucking crap right there. I guarantee you that you ain’t […]

Don’t bargain over inconvenience.

When someone wants something you really don’t want to give in to, you know they’re going to wait for a time when saying no will be very inconvenient for you. Something like just before the election, someone wants something off you so that you’ll be likely to say yes just to avoid them going to […]

Why do people rely on smart people when they don’t want to hear the truth?

It is an interesting skill to fool oneself into believing everything is fine and one’s doing great. One method of self-delusion is to go to a person who is known to be smart with pre-held instructions on what to tell you. When the smart, trusted person picks up on your intent and tells you what […]

Barge in and start making changes… A bit rude, don’t you think?

the Young Soul* have this annoying way of thinking about new people… While THEY hate strangers with all their heart, they like to be the stranger who barges in, starts making changes to their own liking, and complains when the locals don’t like it. They absolutely prefer being the stranger who isn’t liked, rather than […]

Why do women who don’t fear men fear men?

Women who know anything about smart men know they have standards. Men know stuff. The chances of you making an absolute goose of yourself talking to a smart man are super high. Not a fun thought. Eww. Women love smart men, but fuuuk they’re scary. 😀

Why would a woman pretend they don’t love you/care for you even though they believe you’re their True Emotion Mirror?

Short answer: Pride and believing you don’t care. The long answer is a little… Longer. Not wanting to throw themselves at you (like those other women.) True Emotion Mirrors have a natural respect for each other. You both see each other as a perfect human being, but you don’t necessarily see yourselves as such. Therefore, […]

Don’t ever warn a grown man from misbehaving before an event – he’s not your child.

I’m only going to say this once because if you don’t remember this from now on, you don’t deserve yourself a real man. If you treat a man like a little boy who doesn’t know his manners, you rob him of the chance to impress you with his manners. Imagine this scenario: You leave for […]

You don’t have to know everything about technology. A lot of it is there for fun.

When you age, you might be worried about all this technology taking over and feeling like you don’t know what you should know and all that. I personally have one annoyance about technology – it’s getting easier and easier and cheaper to use so that every idiot can now find their way to the Internet […]

Non-confrontational style is a skill – don’t talk yourself into a confrontation or a war – it’s not good for you.

You can stop feeling guilty for being non-confrontational or always avoiding conflict. It’s a virtue, I promise. It just pisses off people who can’t provoke you and can’t rise you to a war. Always dodge when you can. Always run away from a battle. Refuse to defend yourself against an idiot bully. Fuck the turf […]

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