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Don’t hide thinking it is your talent that people are drawn to. Most of the time, it’s your weakness they like.

Don’t hide your candle, they say. Still, there are times when we do, as we don’t want to attract certain people with all the mass of talent that we possess. We don’t want them to get all “Oo, I want you to do that for me or this for me, or…” We also might hide […]

If you push into people’s private life or space uninvited, don’t be surprised if they try to push you out.

“He’s pushing me away,” she complains after pushing her way into his life. “I don’t know what’s the matter. Does he have intimacy issues?” She wonders, never once asking him whether she’s welcome or not.

Why do they react if they don’t have feelings for us?

the Young Soul* want to sometimes push your buttons thinking that if they get a reaction, that’s a sign of love. This is very, very simplified of course, and isn’t always true. Sometimes a Ravens* picks a fight or purposefully irritates someone, or gets provoked into an argument just so they’ll properly fall out […]

Don’t let your girlfriend coach you how you should express emotion.

A narcissistic woman runs her life like a play put on for herself. They’re a director of their own movie of life, and that often comes with the side dish of directing the romantic opposite in her life. When to propose, how, what to buy for presents, how to express things, that all comes from […]

If you’re fit you don’t have to date fat.

Let me just be blunt about something. I HATE the female entitlement for fat women to insist they can date a fit guy. Women have been laughing at fat men who think they can date beautiful women for half a century, but all of a sudden, the reverse isn’t amusing at all, but a fucking […]

You don’t need to lock step with the rest of your gender.

It is OVERLY SIMPLISTIC to say, “Men want that” and “Women want this.” TYPICALLY, because we all have a freaking NOD syndrome, we get involved with people who we don’t really like. Therefore, we get a twisted idea of what men want and what women want. A NOD syndrome is my humoristic name for the […]

Don’t say ‘nobody loves you’ if you only ever asked if one does.

It is incredible how often people fully focus on ONE PERSON for their whole life and insist “nobody loves them” when this one person doesn’t. It maybe a reaction to that person having been nice or kind to them for a time, and then moving onto other things. Maybe you think a nice person is […]

If your partner is making you into someone you don’t want to be, you have a right to leave.

I urge all people to STOP BEING LOYAL TO A FLAW. You shouldn’t hold loyalty as a character trait you’re proud of. Loyalty is something that happens as a reaction to another person’s good character, the way they treat you, the way they treat others, and the things they do for other people. Loyalty should […]

If you don’t want a sexual relationship, stop chasing sexual people into them.

There are asexual people in this world. Some of them are men, albeit they are less vocal about it. Asexual people will rather focus on other ways to spend time together than sex. That’s all fine and dandy, but you CANNOT EXPECT a sexual person to stop being sexual simply because you don’t want sex. […]

“I don’t want” may mean “I want it more than anything”… Or “I don’t want”

When the Young Soul* says they don’t want something or they don’t need or wish for something, it’s quite possibly code for “I want it more than anything.” the Ravens*, however, say “I don’t want it,” and mean… *drum roll* “I don’t want it.” Therefore, whenever a person says, “I don’t want you, it, […]

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