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How to end a relationship with the Young Soul*: “I don’t need you anymore, you’re free to go.”

MANY the Ravens* and Dog-Type relationships are based on the illusion that the other needs you. Quite possibly, you are both in it thinking the other one needs you for something—emotional support, financial stability, or to teach them to do something for them. However, the truth may be the opposite: You may be a […]

“They don’t care about anybody but themselves!” What might that mean?

When a person is frustrated about another person “only caring about themselves,” there’s two possibilities that the person might mean. One is: “I think this person has a lot of potential and have offered them a lot of opportunities to show me they care about me, but they don’t.” Or “This person says they care […]

If you leave, don’t hesitate. LEAVE properly.

No matter how much you used to love someone, if you need to leave them, LEAVE. Don’t stay oohming and aahming over it, whether you had the right, whether they survived or not, if they got depressed or not. Leave. Don’t look behind. The reason for this is that if they loved you, and you […]

Just because THEY ARE working on themselves, doesn’t mean you don’t have to work on yourself.

This is very much a True Emotion Mirror thing. There seems to be a situation where one half of the equation is doing their inner work to ready themselves for the relationship, but the other one isn’t. By focusing on your own work, you may send the signal that you’re the problem, when, in fact, […]

Curiosity is sexy. Don’t stop yourself.

It’s a funny thing. You’ve probably been taught to not stare, to not probe for answers, to not be curious, right? Still, it’s one of the most flattering, and indeed arousing feelings when someone is curious about you. Anything about you. When that curiosity is shared, it’s even more interesting – but doesn’t have to […]

People who look good “posers” if you will, don’t get impressed by “easy going”

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t think all good-looking people are “posers,” but that’s how others may view you… Us. Still, we all fall in love with our own likeness. This has got to do with the way we THINK much more than what we look like, but we look like the outcome of our […]

Don’t give space to those who are counting on the people you want to give you up.

There are life situations where you have a spot to fill in your life that others want, yes? There are two ways you can go about filling that spot: Give it to whoever comes in with a first come, first serve mentality, but don’t lock the door from a better rival who wants that spot. […]

Don’t be afraid of them, be AWARE of them.

Whatever and whomever you’re afraid of, work out the courage to see them as they are, find out what their limitations are, and see if you can start dismantling their power over you. Don’t just pull your head in the sand and let them do what they do, or try and convince yourself that “they […]

The bath water is going to be dirty for a bit, but don’t stop the scrub.

When you’re cleaning out the dirt off your soul and your soulmate groups, it will get really ugly for a while. Just try to be thorough, even if it looks like the water is still running muddy even though you’ve been at it for ages. Even though there’s more sludge than you’ve seen in years, […]

Trust your instinct, when your partner is “just friends” with someone and you don’t like it.

The thing is, we are not jealous in the same way or for the same things. You have the right to your feelings, but remember, so do your partner and their friend. What I mean by this is that we can well be in ill-fitting relationships, and you may not like your boyfriend having a […]

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