Temporary bonds: Vaporizing Lust Mirror

Very shortly, this soulmate connection is a fleeting one but can be baffling enough to cause a lot of grief if you put too much importance to it or hold onto your virginity for marriage and wind up marrying a Vaporizing Lust Mirror. It is a dangerous connection only for people who save themselves for marriage; for everyone else, it’s a bit of a grin.

Mind you, this is not a rejection junkie -connection; it’s just a connection that persists if, for whatever reason, the fire cannot be put out.

This is a sexual connection that evaporates like water on hot stones when acted upon. The annoying part about it is that it can persist and linger for years while these two are fighting off the urge to sleep with one another, but this is the kind of “you simply have to get it out of your system” -thing.

Luckily, unless this is one of your first rodeos, you do sense whether it is that kind or permanent kind, and that is why it can persist for so long: you don’t want to act upon something that won’t last.

A personal example: I had a persistent crush on one of my good friend’s best friend. (Yes, I have a habit. Ironically the best friends also shared the same first name.) Because we didn’t want to hurt his best friend’s feelings, who, in his turn, had a crush on me (my life has been running on rinse and repeat…), we never acted on whatever it was we were feeling.

One day, however, I found out I had just moved across the street from him and that I could see right through his window, 300 km from where we were both from. We lived closer to each other now than we did growing up. (True Emotion Mirror signs, right?)

So, as our mutual friend was nowhere to be seen or to be hurt, I called his friend up, and he invited me over. We had a fantastic week—details of which need not be shared—and neither one of us (I presume) has given each other much of a thought afterward. It’s over and done with.

Moving on from these connections is absolutely painless; it’s just a weird thing that happens, and you’re free of them. No bitterness, no hard feelings, just “ah, good. That’s done,” feeling.

Now, let’s move on to something more exciting.

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