the Savants* MUST KNOW and LEARN

1.  To identify the Normal Person* and to avoid giving them the impression of any level friendship. (If unsure, run. If you have to get along with them, zip your mouth and keep it that way.)
2. To only form relationships, friendships included, to other the Savants*.
3. How to efficiently handle a parent who is the Normal Person*. (Your parent or your co-parent.)
4. How to efficiently handle a child who is the Normal Person*. (Strict rules, allow them to never question your authority or your decisions, remain cool and authoritarian.  Show love ONLY when they’ve behaved to your liking. NEVER show anything in the realm of approval around the time they’ve behaved badly or broken the rules or you’ve got a Hell to pay. Never mix positive and negative feedback. If they’ve been bad, they’re ALL bad, if they’ve been good, they’ve been ALL good. No nuances. Clear, indisputable lines.)
5. Show 0 affection towards the Normal Person*, family or not. You cannot afford to be soft here, EVER!!! Not even in an emergency. Not if their child died of a gunshot. NEVER. (I know this sounds AWFUL to you. I’ll explain later why I’m saying such horrible things.)
6. The rules will change over time, remain flexible to learn new approaches.
7. If you are coaching or doing business with the Normal Person* (especially in coaching or teaching) do not allow personal relationships to form. Treat the Normal Person* like you were a celebrity or a high school teacher. No personal relationships, no crossing the boundary, no speaking out of turn.

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