The Cruelest Thing You Can Do To Another Human Being Is To Protect Their False Ego

I am not going to tell you what to do with this information. Up until now, it’s been used to protect others rather than hurt them. The cruelest thing you can do to another human being is to let them keep their false ego intact if you know a way to dismantle it. No matter how cruel you need to be to be kind, do it. No matter how much it may hurt or humiliate the other person, the worst thing you can subject another person to is a false sense of self and a false idea of how the world works. The reason being is that the only thing truly worth living for is true love. A person with false ideas cannot possibly experience true love. Even if they found true love, they couldn’t recognize it.

An unrealistic self-image can be either positive or negative. Both are poisonous in terms of looking for TRUE love. Both can help you find false love, but true love will remain beyond a person’s reach if their self-image isn’t reasonably realistic.

Meet Skippy for example

Everyone, literally everyone can see Skippy has a WAY inflated ego. It is a miracle he isn’t floating off like a balloon with an ego that inflated, but it’s not his own fault. He didn’t build himself that ego. His ego, just like all false egos, is built by other people who mean well. Egos are built for other people to shield them from seeing their own flaws clearly, or to think their flaws are either not flaws at all, or are lovable quirks instead… When they’re nothing of the sort.

Everybody around him are working double hard to keep his ego intact, to protect him from the realization that he will NEVER find a real girlfriend. They are hoping he will. They know he’ll probably one day lose his virginity, perhaps even get married, but for that to happen, a small miracle must take place, and true love will have nothing to do with that relationship… Unless someone breaks his false idea of himself to smithereens.

Just watch and grinch… If you can stomach it.

What is also terrifying, is that there are people just like Skippy, who will be able to watch this video and NOT recognize themselves in it even if their ego was just as massive as Skippy’s. This TRULY terrifies people who DO have both high self-esteem AND a healthy, level-headed ego. People with a healthy ego KNOW that people like Skippy cannot see themselves in a realistic light and fear they, themselves, maybe one of those people. (M8R10 problem.)

Road to Hell is paved with good intentions

Never has the saying “the road to Hell is paved with good intentions” meant more than in situations such as this. When you WANT to protect that person from the knowledge that everyone thinks they’re… a write-off, but still think you’re a nice person, deserving person, but… COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY CLUELESS.

The thing is, people like Skippy are HIGHLY MOTIVATED TO LEARN. All you need to do is to tell them the actual REAL truth about what’s going on. “Stop bullshitting yourself, Skippy. You look like a moron. Your best friend is your mom. You’re not a fucking catch. Your “winner” personality is that of a fucking pumpkin. You’re an embarrassment to yourself and your friends are fucking champions to not laugh in your face. You need to get REAL. You need to become a real man and stop being a god damned loser. It’s not that you CAN’T. You’re not retarded. It’s just that you’re a complete and utter fucking asshole.”

With his rising internet fame… I bet he’s said some pretty fucking moronic things about his friends, too, judging by the way he spoke of them in this one. (I can’t stomach watching this dick wipe for long enough to know.)

Everyone thinks Skippy his harmless

He’s not mean, purposefully, that is. This is why people let him get away with his attitude. They also view him as being BEYOND HELP or think that making him work as hard as he must work in order to catch up with other men of his age is TOO MUCH WORK FOR HIM. It’s also likely that nobody really wants to be the person who shows him what he must do in order to be a real man. Who would? His problems FAR outweigh his virginity.

I had a friend like this. We thought she was harmless, too. She lost her virginity at the age of 27, luckily, and even got married by 30. So not bad, not bad, but the road there was a bit rough. Still, I am quite willing to bet, she still doesn’t quite add up to others, (I haven’t spoken to her in ages, as I felt lucky to get the hell away) but I am sure she’s hanging onto her ego like a life raft, too.

She, interestingly enough, has probably a long way to leveling up with other women than Skippy has ahead of him, even though Skippy is way, way worse now. The reason being… Skippy seems like a genuinely nice person, on the inside, while my friend isn’t. She is actually quite a genuine mean girl, and mean girls are not good girls. Imagine that. Skippy-level moron, with an attitude of a mean girl, like she was ONE OF the popular girls, equal to them, right? Effin’ hurl.

Talented, intelligent people fear false ego like nothing else

People who are both talented and intelligent are TERRIFIED of accepting too many compliments in their fear of building themselves a false ego. The more compliments they get, the more they feel uncertain about which ones are reliable. They also get feedback that is deliberately harsh and mean, and they know that, too. That makes it difficult to form and keep a level-headed idea of oneself in relation to others.

With all the compliments coming in, talented successful people may be drawn to mean people to balance things out. They may feel mean people are HONEST with them, when in fact, they may be truly duplicitous in their intent.

They fear they’ll wind up like Amber Turd

Amber Heard is now world-famous for her record-breaking ego. She has let compliments get in her head, and she thinks that as a result, she is more important than other people are. She is the very example of why talented people fear taking compliments. The last thing anyone with a level head wants to happen to them is to be THAT PERSON.

NOBODY thinks she’s harmless, or that she COULDN’T be adored if she wanted to. She’s smart enough, she’s funny enough, she’s charming enough. She’s certainly pretty enough and she KNOWS HOW to deal with people. If she wasn’t such a toxic waste bin, people would probably think she’s way more talented than what they think of her now.

Nobody feels sorry for Amber, for a reason

The problem is she is, like my former friend, a genuine mean girl. Her problems run deeper than Skippy’s. In her case, people are far less willing to be gentle with her. They know all she has to do is to wake the fuck up and stop being a god damned abusive bitch. Also, people are jealous of women of that kind of beauty, that’s just the truth. People LOVE beautiful women being torn down. That’s the ego of her critics talking, that all she deserves is hate and negativity. Mostly, that’s true.

In her case, nobody is afraid of breaking her ego, as SHE won’t have to face anything but her own callousness, rather than her own inability to be as good as or even better than others are.

It’s just that it’s much HARDER to break the ego of someone like her. There is a lot of things that she can be genuinely complimented on, even if we all agree she’s a genuine waste of oxygen. This makes it harder to wake her up to the realization that her shit stinks just as much as anybody else’s, and that her actions are not sanctioned by a goddess status like she thinks they are. I can almost hear her ask: “Why aren’t they?”

The moment you decide you’re a good person is the moment you stop being one

Here’s another bit of wisdom: The moment you decide you’re a good person is the moment you stop being one. This means people who have an ego that informs them that their motivations are always good and justified and that they don’t have to watch their own motivations. NOBODY IS EVER all good. We all have our dark side. Only people who think they don’t have a dark side, allow their dark side to roam free without a watcher.

This is why every person who thinks they are, without a doubt, a good person, is more than likely anything but.

That said

I know I’m being mean in this post. This is not something I would have written… Before. I don’t know exactly when I changed, but there was a time I would have joined in molly-coddling Skippy and everybody else of his kind. I consider myself primarily responsible for my former friend’s false ego and idea that she can afford to be a mean girl. (My excuse is that I was young…)

I get my fair share of compliments. I watch them like a hawk. The negativity is not nearly as pronounced, and I try to be self-critical considering others won’t do it as willingly. I do know I hate negative feedback as much as the next person. Still, PLEASE if you see something I need to hear, tell me. I won’t TRUST you will, because if it so happens that nobody will, I still don’t want to get cocky thinking I have never put a foot wrong… I know I have and will. But if you see something, do tell me, as a favor.

Also, please, be gentle. 😀 I won’t need much of a nudge to feel mortified. 😉

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