the Survivalist* falls in love with AN OPPORTUNITY to bond

It is incredibly difficult for a Idealists* to understand what drives the Survivalist* into a relationship with someone. An the Idealists* can state clearly what kind of qualities they appreciate in another person, and what are the traits they avoid and despise in others. Now, the Survivalist* is loyal to their group or partner, but a single the Survivalist* is eager to make a connection to someone… ANYONE, really. The only question on their mind is: “DO I have a CHANCE to make this person commit to me?” If the answer is yes, the deal’s done, if “no”, they may still try and test the waters and if they find the waters potential, they’ll fall in love with that potential of making a connection.

To give them a false signal of potential, ALL YOU NEED TO DO is to be friendly with them, with 0 intent of forming a real relationship with them, friendly or romantic.

the Idealists* ALSO look for signs of potential bonding, but they are FAR MORE SELECTIVE about who they are interested in bonding with. They may also fall in love with first sight, something the Survivalist* don’t usually do, as they RARELY get that feeling there’s a potential for connection at the first sight.

the Survivalist* ONLY need to see AN OPPORTUNITY to connect to feel completely in love with someone, and they’ll start gradually falling in love with the qualities of the person in question in preparation of their up-coming nuptials. The Survivalist* are rarely insecure about their chances to get the one they want, if they have been encouraged just the tiniest amount at all.

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