the Survivalist* need their family much more than their romantic partners.

the Survivalist* feel much more connected to their families than their romantic partners. The Idealists* feel differently. The Idealists* love their ultimate romantic partners (True Emotion Mirrors) even more than their own children, but they also allow their children to love their True Emotion Mirrors more than they expect their children to love them. The Survivalist* try to replace their family and lack of contact with their family with romantic partners and spouses. If you are a Idealists* in a relationship with the Survivalist*, and you want out, you may wish they’ll find a new partner, but what they should find is their soul family.

You may try and call for their soul family to them, maybe even in spirit, hopefully making them feel safe and sound with them rather than clinging to you. The trouble is, they would never leave you alone, which never bothers a Idealists* nearly as much as the Survivalist* feels it should.

the Idealists* feel desperation when ‘stuck’ with the Survivalist*, because they feel if they leave them, they’ll never find a new romantic partner, or at least easily. They should find it much a relief that the Survivalist* don’t WANT a romantic partner as much as they want friends and family. It’ll be easy to rehome the Survivalist* when you find them a new non-sexual support group… and then, let them see you cheating on them, so they don’t have to feel sorry for you.

the Survivalist* feel a relationship is less safe and secure if sex is required to uphold it. Therefore, their non-sexual relationships are of a higher value to them. The Idealists* barely recognize a relationship to BE a relationship if sex isn’t involved. Without sex, a Idealists* thinks they don’t matter to that person, and that person doesn’t matter to them. This could be something to emphasize in a dating ad for sure, even if it would cause the other type to attack you and call you insane or a troll. (Don’t bite. They’re the opposite type. Don’t respond, delete.)

When you summon your the Survivalist*’s true family in spirit, don’t be surprised if they appear in animal form. Never mind it; we never really know what anyone’s spirit identifies as. 😉

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