the Survivalist* needs time to adjust – the Idealists* are whatever they are and won’t change.

the Survivalist* experience pressure to change and conform (to relationship demands) differently from the Idealists*. The Idealists* are what they are, and giving them time to adjust to something won’t make them HAPPIER about it, it simply makes them submit to a fate that they cannot change. This will potentially lead to suicide and depression, but at most, it makes them permanently dissatisfied. The Survivalist* will adjust to almost anything – happily – given enough time and pressure to do so. This is why the Idealists* will have to learn to put a foot down and insist that it is the Survivalist*who will change – they have the ability to. The Idealists* grow and learn, but the Survivalist* will HAPPILY adjust to whatever changes the Idealists* need to make themselves happier.

Most pressure in this world these days comes from the Survivalist*because they don’t know that it causes the Idealists* emotional upheaval because it doesn’t have the same effect on the Survivalist*. They don’t do it to be mean, they do it thinking others will adjust. They’re doing it similarly to a new dog owner trying to calm a grown dog down into a new environment – and with the Survivalist*, it actually works. Not so with the Idealists*.

Common situations are pressuring a Idealists* into relationships, jobs, and life choices, thinking “they’ll come around” over time; “they’ll change.” “They will accept this relationship demands sacrifices” and from dog-type’s perspective, ANY relationship is worth salvaging and sacrificing for.

the Idealists* don’t feel that way about ALL relationships. Once they find a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate, their feelings will become similar to the Survivalist*’ current feelings, which maybe simply a result of having found a high-status individual to hold onto. It may also be that the Survivalist*ALWAYS has someone “shiny” to hang onto, but it takes far more for a Idealists* to find someone they feel enthralled by enough to go through a lot of drama to keep them. The more options you feel you have, too, reduces your need to hang onto every opportunity of happiness you’ll come across in life… And also it makes you very aware of how horrible it feels when a low-level individual wants to smother you into their own little cuddle buddy, and they are very reluctant to make someone they love to feel the same way.

the Idealists* have a clear idea of who they are, and the Survivalist*pressure tries to force them to change their CORE values, and their CORE personality, and forcing that on them will POTENTIALLY turn them into psychopaths and serial killers. In contrast, the Survivalist* will turn into tyrants if they are not obeyed, and if they believe in their intent is justified strongly enough.

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