the Normal Person* Sapioamorist’s guide to the Savants* Sapioamorist True Emotion Mirror
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A Normal Person* Sapioamorist, you, are a person who falls in love with a person’s mind (or the intuitive sense you have of it). You are capable of falling in love at first sight, ACCURATELY, with the right person. (This is a sapioamorist quality.) The Normal Person* part of you make you want to fight the one you love, to see if they’ll stick with you if you test them a little.
An the Savants* Sapioamorist, (like me or Johnny Depp) IF they are in love with you, will more than likely avoid fights with you because they are deathly afraid of chasing you away if they engage. They believe they have somehow offended you without meaning to, they’ve done something horrible without realizing, or something is very wrong with you, and they want to take a step back to see what it is that you got upset about, so they don’t do it again or find a way to help you solve your issues before making them worse. They don’t understand arguing for the sake of arguing, or “testing love”.
If a Savants* Sapioamorist isn’t in love with you, they’ll simply block/ignore you or tell you to fuck off. If they do love you, they’ll have a lot of patience for you, but they won’t fight you. They’ll try to talk to you and see what it is that you need to feel happy and calm with them. However, for a Savants* to understand why you need to fight them… If you have to explain it to them, it might take the fun out of the fight for you.
the Savants* Sapioamorists are afraid of their own wrath
When you TRULY piss off a Savants* Sapioamorist, they will turn murderous. They will TRULY HAVE TO FIGHT EVERY INSTINCT THEY HAVE, not to cut your throat. They DO NOT WANT TO fight you. They don’t want to mess with you, because if you the Normal Person* the kill the Normal Person* off, they will go about their murder coldly, coolly, and without remorse. That’s why they don’t want to tempt the beast. They will do everything in their power to stay away from you if they start feeling murderous rage toward you, but they may also avoid you if they have NO IDEA why it is that you’re picking a fight with them. They may sense your love, which confuses them because they don’t direct their anger at people they love. EVER. They only ever raise their voice at you, if they still love you.
Here’s a discussion between Johnny Depp (Sapioamorist the Savants*) and Amber Heard (Physioamorist2 the Normal Person*). She was physically violent toward Depp, who was always trying to mitigate the fights, walk away from them, and avoid further confrontation with her. He’s controlling his anger, talking silently, and at worst, use sarcasm to emphasize his meaning. “How are your toes? Your poor toes!” (She punched him in the chin for accidentally scraping her toes with a door when she was pushing her way in and he was trying to get away from her wrath.)
A Sapioamorist the Savants* fears what happens if they lose control. They are truly capable of murder if they lose it. Therefore, they avoid open fights with everything they have. Once they no longer care what happens to the relationship, they start fighting back. They will also try and control their voice when they address the other, to make sure that even when they are angry, they maintain a level of respect if they still care for this person.
What is also typical with these types, is that they both feel what is important to one, is never important to the other, and both feel “you can’t let go of this…” The reason being is that neither gets their way with the other, the argument is never-ending because they have trouble understanding each other intuitively.
The Normal Person* is annoyed about the Savants*’s “superiority”
What annoys the Normal Person* is the very avoidance of fights – whether physical or verbal. They feel the person avoiding a fight is “above them” or “acting superior”, “trying to be better than them”. Amber, on the clip, expresses this as: “Yes you did the right thing, the big thing! You’re very admirable!” In truth, the Normal Person* fear physical fights, and they fight you because they TRUST you. An the Savants* doesn’t trust themselves, therefore, they avoid fights, as they MAY HURT SOMEONE, for real. Therefore, the Normal Person* thinks you’re a coward, and the Savants* doesn’t understand how the Normal Person* doesn’t know what they’re playing with. So when Johnny says “I’m afraid we’re a crime scene”, he means it. One of them is going to wind up dead – and it’s likely to be her, not him. He doesn’t want to risk that, so he leaves.
In another recording, she moans: “I have never been able to over-power you!” to explain to him why it’s OK for her to use violence. Sounding very sad, he asks: “Why did you try?” To him, bringing physical violence to a love affair is absolutely non-sensical, as it is bringing death into a love affair.
“I am not the enemy”
However, a Savants* is trying to express that they are not the enemy, they are not angry, and that they still have respect for this person; they are not engaging into an open war, because they don’t want to destroy what they have by saying something that they cannot take back in the heat of the moment. To a Savants*, there is also such a thing as death of love that they fear. THERE IS A WAY that you are ABLE to kill their love for you. And if they love you, they will do everything in their power to stop you from killing their respect and love for you, but they know it’s possible. They have a limit.
However, with the Normal Person*, EVERYTHING can be taken back. They believe they can take ANYTHING back, including physically injuring their partner permanently. To the Normal Person*, such things are “accidents”, not THEIR accidents, but the accidents of the couple. “We got hurt”, not you. “That was OUR finger I cut off, not YOURS.” Even better: “That was OUR finger that got cut off in OUR fight.” The person doing it was “us”, not “I”.
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*) Term changed after this post was originally written. Fractions of old terms may exist elsewhere in the post. Read about term updates.
**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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