the Young Soul* sound like they know what they’re doing even when they have no idea.
the Young Soul* are GREAT at expressing self-confidence and expertise in a situation where they have none. They trust formal education much more than the Old Souls* do, without it actually making them experts in anything. The Young Soul* women are twice as good at this as the Young Soul* men are, as we all have a tendency to “believe mommy,” and if a woman excludes maternal energy, most of us find it difficult to stick to our guns with them.
the Young Soul* self-confidence can feel attractive at first, but fall apart when you realize it’s based on self-delusion, unrealistic self-image, and over-confidence over displaying confidence; they believe that self-confidence is simply something you apply to your incompetence and then you roll with it. The only thing you need to know is to appear like you know what you’re doing – and you know what you doing -sort of way. They don’t think ANYONE truly knows what they’re doing, so they have no qualms pretending like they do.
Competence
the Young Soul* also have a hard time telling who is competent and who isn’t. The Old Souls* know a lot easier who is and isn’t, but to a dog-type, being called “incompetent” is a similar slur to “we’ll your dick is too small anyway” because nobody really knows where that line is crossed. They don’t believe in “incompetence” they think everyone is, but the Old Souls* have a much clearer idea what that word even means; what is expected from a person in a certain position, and when they are not fulfilling their end of the deal.
the Young Soul* will also NEVER admit to not knowing what they’re doing or having made a mistake. To them, this is a sign of weakness and incompetence, not the actual weakness and incompetence they’re hiding.
the Old Souls* should learn to recognize the Young Soul* and their needs.
the Old Souls* will have to learn to discern the Young Soul* even when the Young Soul* insists they’re “totally the Old Souls*” if they decide that’s what they have to say to get the job. They LIE, but they don’t believe they are LYING, they believe they’re simply playing a role given to them. (Amber Heard didn’t think she was lying, but playing a role she was pushed into; if her lawyer or anyone assumed it was her who was the victim, she’d think: “Oh, they want me to play the victim part. Oh, OK”, even if she was completely against the idea, she might still do it, thinking “the feminist movement” wants her to.) the Young Soul* believe that the truth is whatever you can make others believe. A “lie” is a concept they don’t fully understand.
“No, YOU are!”
They will also copy critical slurs that worked on them. If I create a success calling one faction of people the Young Soul* and the other the Old Souls* and call the Young Soul* incompetent lying tyrants, they will do the same against the Old Souls*. And the Old Souls* WILL HAVE TO LEARN to make their own decision on who is who. The Old Souls* will have to learn to trust nobody but themselves when it comes to reasoning and logical thinking.
Stay independent. Don’t get recruited.
the Old Souls* will also do better to not allow themselves to be recruited for any position, and remain as independent as possible, and create relationships only with people they truly like, NOT stopping themselves from ENDING relationships when they realize they made a mistake. The Old Souls* cannot afford to hold “loyalty” as one of their personal values. The Old Souls* should also delay having children with a new partner for a bit longer, as they cannot be put back where they came from if the partner radically changes after the wedding like the Young Soul* tend to do. (They “dress to the season” as in, if they changed a lot during an engagement, they will change again once they marry. They will often also change to fit a subculture a person they have their eye on belongs in, even if they have no idea what the subculture values are – this is typical to a dog-type; their idea what a subculture or a philosophy is about tends to be shallow or non-existing; as if learned from a book rather than vibrating with.)
You should also be careful not to be recruited into a “rescue project” of a Old Souls* loved one of yours, if the recruiter is the Young Soul*that thinks they know that person better than you do. They will sound like they know what they’re saying: “They’ll come around” “Look, we know him/her.” “They’re just afraid of the change.” NEVER believe a dog-type’s relationship advice when it comes to a Old Souls* – they have NO idea what they’re speaking about… But won’t sound like it. Especially the Cat Thinking men must be careful not to listen to the Young Soul*women who think they know a Old Souls* woman better than a Old Souls* man does, through the virtue of also being female. The Old Souls* women are as dissimilar to the Young Soul*women as the concept of “men” are to the concept of “women”.
Lyrical texts and unusual expressions.
Lyrical texts are also something the Young Soul* have difficulty understanding… Something that the poet among us should make heed of. The more floral or unconventional your expression, the more difficult and taxing it is for the Young Soul*to read it – and the more interesting and engaging it is for a Old Souls*. The Young Soul* cannot stop themselves from trying to find out a secret, therefore things hidden in plain sight tend to be missed by the Young Soul*easier than things carefully hidden from sight. The good thing about this is that complex “brainy” media will not appeal to the Young Soul*- we know this, too because they often run the companies that decide “what will sell and what won’t”. They like things simple and conventional, while the Old Souls* are much more adapted to obscure and unusual; new ways.
the Old Souls* men who handle the Young Soul*women well.
There is the Old Souls* male that has learned to adapt to what they think are the “female needs”, while they are talking about the Young Soul*needs. You will have to start looking up from your conviction you’re a master seductor and the perfect family man and start looking for alternative ways to perfect your relationship skills – so that they will also serve your needs at a higher level. You may have decided that you have to settle for women you have to basically build for yourself from the ground up, but with a Old Souls* woman, the attempt to do so would not be… Smart.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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