the Young Soul* Thinking romance vs. The Cat Thinking romance.

the Young Soul* want to die for love. They delight in fighting duels. But the Old Souls* wants a man who lives and gives explosive orgasms.

Paraphrasing Marilyn Monroe’s Diamonds are Girls’ Best Friends for a rule of thumb, the Young Soul* want to suffer for love and for their lovers to suffer more. Type Thinkers want to love to bring them pleasure and for love to be pleasurable for their lover as well.

They take the same attitude in all relationships, but in this, I’ll focus on romance and how the two thinker types view it differently.

Dog Type Thinkers = Drama

the Young Soul* play real tough. They suffer for love. They pine after the one they can’t have and “love” doing it. The Young Soul* thinkers live for drama, and from the Cat Type Thinking* perspective, it’s empty drama because they need to tell themselves stories in order to feel all the drama, and for that drama to mean what they want it to mean. They fill their heads with whatever works to make them feel massive emotions, but a Old Souls* wants to feel the love that exists without drama.

While drama brings people together, the love that the Old Souls* recognize as love survives boredom. They feel excited about being in the same room with the person they love – no action is required. The Young Soul* need action to feel love. They need to feel the drama – maybe win the affections of The Guy/Girl everyone Wants (for that reason alone, because everyone else wants him or her, without the ability to know WHY everyone wants him or her,) steal partners, to be stolen from, cheating, beating, bickering, lying about even wanting to be with you.

Their idea of love is that “You fight for love” by fighting to keep the drama alive – not the love as far as a Old Souls* goes – even if you have to be the person making the drama dramatic. That’s why arguing with the Young Soul* only makes them fall in love with you; they rely on drama to feel something and to test the bond: “Will you stay for this? Yes? You must love me.”

Drama test.

A good idea for a Old Souls* is to observe how much drama their potential partner enjoys, but there’s a danger. If that person is a Old Souls* and you cause drama, the likelihood that they will be put off by that is high. Therefore, the drama must come from elsewhere – how quickly does his or her attention sift from the calm you to the dramatic other. (It might be a good reason to keep the Young Soul* around when necessary to pick a fight with your dates.)

the Young Soul* should always pick a fight with whomever they wish to bond with—a Old Souls* will never start a relationship with someone they deem dramatic from the start. That makes it so the Dog Thinker* will never have to deal with the lack of feeling in a relationship and saves them from the fact that ONCE the Old Souls* “is warming up,” it means they’re already planning on leaving.

Cat Type Thinkers = Conflict avoidance

You can tell a Old Souls* by their unwillingness to engage in an argument and wanting to talk things through. To the Young Soul* this is boring, and they may have taught their friends or children to pick a fight with the person they like: “Treat them mean, keep them keen.” This doesn’t work on a Old Souls*, however.

The Young Soul* find their conflict avoidant approach to life insanely irritating. However, when a Old Souls* TRIES to be irritating, they start conflicts. They try to act in a way that would turn them off, and that’s the exact trigger that makes the Young Soul* think “Ooooo, sex!” But when a Old Souls* is fighting, the LAST THING on their mind is sex. They may need a good week to rebalance, if they ever will before they want sex with that person… if they ever want it again.

A great way to give a Cat Thinking man erectile dysfunction is to pick a fight with him about everything and anything. Ironically, what would the Young Soul* Thinking wife do to fix an erectile dysfunction? She’d pick a fight. “You can’t even get it up!” that should entice the Young Soul* Thinking male to prove there’s nothing wrong with his erection, but it would absolutely destroy the last of a Cat Thinking man’s prowess, ESPECIALLY toward his wife, and he’d might find it very interesting he has fully functional gear as soon as  he gets away from his wife.

the Young Soul* Thinking women call this “men having a fragile ego” but it’s not that. The Old Souls* don’t understand (and don’t need to learn) why you’d hurt the one you love, it makes no sense to them. In fact, they believe they are WORTH MORE than some bitch who cannot even behave.

the Cat Thinking women started the whole emancipation of women movement because they hate the Young Soul* Thinking bullshit. Too many the Cat Thinking women were wrapped up and married to the Young Soul* Thinking men and their drama.

The takeaways

What this means is that Dogs and Cats don’t mix. They can be some level friends but shouldn’t mate. The Old Souls*, to the Young Soul* are utterly boring, and the Young Soul* to a Old Souls* is an abusive sex-killing wastrel. Both a Old Souls*, and the Young Soul* feel nullified and disrespected in their relationship with the opposite thinker, UNLESS they’re fighting which validates the Young Soul*, but will destroy the relationship.

the Young Soul* also don’t know when to stop, and to their liking, the Old Souls* quit entirely too early. The Old Souls* should quit at the first argument, with the reservation that SOMETIMES the Old Souls* have been conditioned to treat the opposite gender “mean to keep them keen” even if that wasn’t their natural way of doing things. They might feel that they’re not enough the way they want to be, because decades of social conditioning has taught them that aggression works on the opposite gender, but they find it frustrating and irritating about them, rather than anything positive.

the Young Soul* Thinking men in particular have also been socially conditioned to play real nice with girls, because “girls don’t like rough-playing boys” but they should know the Young Soul* Thinking women want to be beaten up and battered – but you didn’t hear that from me. 😀 Pick a fight as you wish to, and see how that works. Leave the girls alone who don’t respond.

the Old Souls*, by the way… FORGET ABOUT A FAIR CHANCE or accepting everybody, and “giving everybody a voice or a chance” or whatever bullshit you now live by. BLOCK AND BAN at the first offense. The Old Souls* know their boundaries. They will respect them – with the ONLY exception the conditioned ones, but keep your wits about you. If you ARE interested, without even knowing how could you, considering, let them stay, but as soon as you’re done, you’re done. Block, ban, eject, unfriend, delete number… Whatever, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE for the least amount of drama possible.

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