The Dogs are Barking but the Caravan is Moving On

That’s a Finnish saying for “let the haters hate”. Finding the attitude that there’ll be people who want freebies in the form of love shown to them and whatever, but there’s really little or no point listening to them too much. If you’re looking for true love yourself, you CANNOT pretend to be something you’re not and expect the response to be love for your true self. Some people believe, of course, that true love is something that people who are nothing like you will enjoy, a bit like real diamonds are something only rich people can afford, so if you want it, you’ll have to pretend to be something you’re not, but that’s just a very, very stupid way of interpreting it.

If you are a celebrity, you’ll have to be able to block away a lot of the noise from the dogs barking so you can keep making authentic life decisions. Block them or teach them to be silent. One is easier done than the other. I kinda aim for the silencing of the dogs, but then again, that might be a little too ambitious to tell you the truth. You have to ignore some of it, in reality. You CANNOT please everybody, nor can you allow the dogs to dictate to you WHICH ONES OF THEM you should please while ignoring another group of dogs.

What are these dogs, in this case? People you don’t love, like, nor respect.

You should only ever try to please people who you love as your potential True Emotion Mirrors or your potential Precious Soulmates, and ignore everybody else when they contradict that goal. You cannot afford to displease your True Emotion Mirror(s) at the expense of pleasing people who mean very little to you in comparison. Who the FUCK CARES what they say if your True Emotion Mirror isn’t happy about it?

The problem is, that the dogs are sometimes so loud, that your True Emotion Mirrors and your Precious Soulmates ALSO try to accommodate their needs, wishes, and morals fearing it is YOU who is barking with the dogs when you’re there hoping they’d shut the heck up. You fear your True Emotion Mirrors would judge you for what you do, think, or feel… But they wouldn’t. They’re your PERFECT counterparts. If you feel it, they probably feel it, too. The dogs are a trap.

When the dogs can’t get what they want by barking, they’ll start whimpering, and that’s a damned side harder to resist the urge to stop for them, too. However. These are not dogs you like. You know, real-life dogs. These are humans who you don’t really even respect, let alone value that much – definitely you won’t value them more than you value your True Emotion Mirrors if you have (found) them.

The dogs will try to embarrass and shame you for liking someone or something “wrong”

When you show love toward the people who you truly love, the dogs will try to shame and embarrass you for liking someone who they don’t want you to like. They want to embarrass you for wanting the life or company of the people that you want the company of, because that lifestyle will take you away from them, away from their control. They will “cancel you” if you don’t obey their ideas of what is right… Often even coercing themselves to be chosen as sexual partners against your true LOVE for them, but the obligation to put out because THEY want YOU to want them…

Shaming is a popular way of making you do things the way a ‘desired’ group wants things done, but it’s the dumbest thing how often we try to please people who we really don’t even like or agree with, out of fear OUR way would put us out of business, would render us friendless, and would get us no love or no sex.

Stop obeying other people’s dogs. If your True Emotion Mirror is barking, feel free to change – but make sure he or she is barking their own words, rather than having been shamed into barking the words of the dogs that should not be in the caravan.

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