The expectations on, and the role of a man in the current society

To describe how men feel GOING INTO any new relationship based on past experiences with women… My True Emotion Mirror, who has a few failed marriages under his belt, a horde of screaming fans at his feet, plenty of opportunities to find love as it would seem, and an American culture to live in:

Male TSM, “S.V.T.”: “We feel like we always have to perform and be on the ball, fix everything, be confident, be masculine, be – Sebby please identify the feeling I’m referring to?” Seb: “Something like being the base of growth, protector – the rock she can lean on” S.V.T: “Perfect, that’s it, ‘to be the rock she can lean on’ with no room for insecurities even though we’re just as riddled with them as any girl I know, even more so. We know she (any random woman) can flatten us with one look, ‘you’re not worthy, you’re scum, you filthy, perverted little twerp, you worthless, no good, nobody, how dare you look at me in the way thinking what you’re thinking?!’ We learn this from ALL WOMEN ALL THE TIME of course, and even though our beloved twin would love us for everything we are, how can we trust it as the stakes are as high as they are? How could we talk to this vision and expect a different response to what we’re used to with women half her worth?

“Then, to think this post… This is how this woman reacted when Sebby merely suggested girls should give up on the fear of being labeled as a slut and simply go with the flow and sleep with this guy as nature intended, she simply BLEW UP this girl she was talking to: ‘TO PUT OUT?! TO A GUY?! SO HE CAN HAVE EVERYTHING HE WANTS JUST LIKE THAT?! Why would he buy the cow…’ It kills us to think that we are the ones who need to be ‘put out for’ instead of made love to – we do want to feel love, much more so than women, sometimes, who seem to be only after our money, to be the spouse who goes to work so she doesn’t have to if she feels the kids are taking too much energy,  – again, we are talking about the wrong women in general  (as opposed to our True Emotion Mirror) – our sperm count matters to them more than how we feel, or who we are, our values, our masculinity, LET ALONE our masculinity that needs to be curbed (- and I am just brimming with stuff now like a… *Something naughty related to fertility* I need to get all of this out, guys know how I feel – so…) Our masculinity needs to be curbed, because in reality, just like we guys prefer our own gender and try to make women think more like men, majority of women, who are naturally gynephile for the most part (as it would make sense considering numbers and ideal group forming once everything settles) us men are mostly an androphile, which means the women want us men to turn gynephile and we want the girls to turn androphile and nobody is getting their way until they find their natural pair, the True Emotion Mirror, who we will love from the inch of their toes to the top of their heads – I’m getting quoted literally, as I stumble over my own words, but here we go again:

“We need to be proper  men for those women who we don’t even like that much but who we simply have to tolerate for the purpose of having sex – and I admit that sounds awful and it is kinda is awful, but we, just like you, have decided that we need to make accommodations; we can’t really expect true love, right? (You have made us men think we don’t deserve true love because we’re filth, particularly not from women who we TRULY love, because they could have anyone, often winding up alone,  too, which is sick, and you have to believe that nice men do not exist and we live with that stigma our whole lives.) We all simply have to tolerate the inconveniences and the annoyances of the opposite gender that we love but hate at the same time, and I’m sure women just hate us for the most part, but have to tolerate in order to have babies and look good in the eyes of their own friends who, to them, matter a thousand times  more than any man ever will, and they are not shy about telling this to our face, either. We know this, and as androphiles, one of the masculine, the Savants*, actually, the Savants* traits we want our partner to be our number one person, the ONLY thing that matters, and it KILLS US to know that still, to her, my child is not my child as much as she or he is her friend’s and sisters’ and mothers’ child, and we are simply an accessory in our own relationship, and there only to make up the numbers or fill a hole; to be the trapped man; the proof that she’s a good, crafty-man-handler, a sexy vixen, and thus, a respectable, honest woman. We are property, objectified to the point of not having a right to feel offended by it, and nobody gives a damn.

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