The hair of a difference between the Normal Person* and a dominant the Savants*

the Savants* can be very dominant by their approach to life. It’s their way or the highway, whereas the Normal Person* feels it’s their way or your way but there’ll never be a highway. Dominant anarchists exist, and their attitude can be explained as such: “You’re on my territory, and on my territory, I make the rules. You are not required to stay, you can leave at any time you like, but for as long as you’re on my turf, these are the rules.”

the Savants* need consent to dominate. The Normal Person* do not. The Normal Person* seek for the dominant in ANY and ALL relationships, without consent as a natural consequence to having a relationship with someone. Therefore, a Savants* will dominate enough to keep their independence near the Normal Person*: “I’m sorry but you’re not my boss. I’m not your boss. I do as I like, and you do as you like, but don’t you fucking dare try to dominate me ON MY TURF. You get to dominate me the minute I come knocking on your door begging for favors but don’t hold your breath waiting for that to happen.”

the Normal Person* start the dominance/submission game as soon as they meet. Instantly. Man and women alike. First, it’s about sizing each other up, then it’s an upgrade to that. The Savants* don’t do that normally. They need a context to submission and dominance, mostly sexual rather than romantic context, but also a professional context will do: “OK, you’re paying me for training you to become the best in the world. Do you want to be the best or not? If yes, you do exactly as I say or you can find yourself another trainer.”

You can’t, also, force a Savants* to dominate you (take responsibility for your choices) by butting onto their territory, as you can do with the Normal Person*. An the Savants* will ALWAYS insist that unless they take a 100% responsibility over your success or your failure, (which they can’t do running a blog or a YouTube channel, no matter how good they are), they will ALWAYS remind you that at the end of the day you’re the one making choices related to your success and wellbeing.

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