The ideal female – by the Normal Person* thinking standards and by the Savants* thinking standards

the Normal Person* thinking ideal female

• Main goal; being social, to fit in, to have a close-knit group of friends.
• The definitions for the ideal the Normal Person* female vary a little bit from country-to-country and community-to-community, but here are some popular modern ideals that Western countries seem to largely agree on.
• Not concerned about her looks, but is more concerned about the kind of mother she will make one day.
• Not frumpy, but nicely dressed to suit her natural body.
• Will never be seen at the gym, but will ENJOY life to the fullest with all the fat and sugar she can stomach! (This enjoyment will keep her metabolism working overtime, too, she will not be thin by any means, but she will be lusciously feminine. The enjoyment keeps her healthy, regardless her BMI rating!) The other option is that she will take due care of her calorie intake, but this is more a Savants* female ideal that is confused for the Normal Person* thinking ideal.
• Not overly sexual in her alignment; saves sex for those times when her boyfriend or husband is loving towards her.
• She loves children and she loves her husband for being a great father and a provider for her family. She truly values a hard-working, good man, who puts his family first.
• Her ideal guy works hard and is dependable, and even boring at times, and prefers the company of his family to the company of his friends. (Yes, he exists, just let the polyandrist women clear the dating pool off of the non-suitable ones, as she won’t touch your guy with a six-foot pole!)
• Can be bossy and demanding of attention and loyalty, but is aware of the risk of misinterpretation of another person’s affections, and understands that the failure of letting go of a potential the Savants* in a relationship will result into a mutually abusive domestic situation, where the male is trying to get away from her while she is forcing him to stay. She must be aware of the possibility of herself being the abusive partner, but due to her natural alignment, it may be difficult for her to do so. Others should intervene, particularly the friends of the unwilling the Savants* thinking spouse, when things get too far out of hand.
• The ideal the Normal Person* thinking female is secure enough to know that she will want to get married in her twenties, depending on her personality, early on as soon as she’s legally able, or late 20’s early 30’s. If she’s a late bloomer so to speak, that is because she values education and wants to be well fit to share the financial load of her family with her husband. She should not feel pressured to do so, but she should know which category she wishes to belong in; to the married young in their 20’s or the married later in life, but with a same devotion to their family.
• Should she decide to get an education, it is more than for show only or acquired from an organization that specifically provides education for women who intend to focus on their families in later life to take into account the expense of educating women whose primary focus is taking care of their family. She will avoid acquiring an education in fields that are male-dominated, to ensure she won’t take a spot from someone who intends to use that degree in practise. She may take an education in domestic fields, nursing, or early-education, as well as dress-making and other practical skills she may need in later life even if she decided to stay at home. She may aquire education in fields that support self-employment.
• The ideal the Normal Person* female may be either a stay-at-home mom, a work-from-home business owner or she’ll work in a field that doesn’t cut in the needs of her family. Family always comes first, and she understands the difference of working for the purpose of keeping up appearances (bad) and avoiding criticism from the Savants* thinking women (bad), and actually working to benefit her family (good).
• She has a strong female support system nearby, one or two good friends to share the load with, and a close relationship to her mother and sisters. She should feel free to find similar bonds should she not have these women nearby, and her husband should work to find her female company should she not have anyone close by, sometimes by moving to an area where she has friends to lean on.
• Her kitchen is the heart of her home. She loves cooking and creating a warm, loving environment for her family, friends, and visitors.
• In 2017, she is allowed to receive more help and attention from her husband than what she is required to give. (This may change in future generations.)
• To the Normal Person*, appearances are always more important than reality. This creates calm and comfort in the community.
• She works in a team environment, either professionally or non-professionally, which, in this case, means that the common cause or goal is more important than her own achievements. She is modest and shares the glory and is helpful and generous with her effort. She understands that men and women who receive individual praise are the Savants* and thus nothing she needs to compete against or trying to fit in with.
• She lavishes her children with attention and love while they are young, and lets the children push her away when they are ready to become more independent, and knows this is a phase in their development, not something she needs to take personally. She knows her the Savants* thinking children are meant to leave home and earn money their own way to send back home by their own volition, while her the Normal Person* thinking children are meant to stay close by and remain a part of the close-knit family.
• Ideally, in 2017, she’d have a minimum of 3 children, but more than that will be her own choice. The ideal used to be 2 children, now it has grown to 3, and the ideal number of children is likely to keep growing in the future. Given that she understands the need of some children moving out and living their own life serving the greater community by their natural ability, it makes sense she has more than the minimum number of children.
• She loves anyone who needs love, obviously, not sexually speaking.

the Savants* thinking ideal female

• Main goal; to live through her authentic being, to find a close-knit group of very similarly thinking people to make friends with.
• The second main goal: to find a HIGHLY intense romantic partnership in alignment with her authentic self, a True Emotion Mirror -partner or group.
• The Savants* ideal female has an ideology and a standard that she holds herself to. Her values and ideals are real, much more than simple verbatim at the dinner table. She makes no fuss about them but holds herself to them even when nobody else knows she does. She is the real deal, and she hasn’t got a fake bone in her body – and if she does, she has a good reason for it and always works towards a situation where all fakeness and pretense can be let go off. If she pretends, it is a strategy to keep others from interfering in her life, not a means to gain approval from others.
• Takes care of her physique, and makes it seem as effortless as possible. Whatever her ideal figure is, she carries it proudly and without a fuss.  She never blames ‘expectations’ for ‘having to’ maintain a certain figure. Her figure is her choice and she takes full responsibility of it.
• Her style is personal, ideally timeless. Tends not to follow trends, or knows how to make trends timeless, so that an old photograph of her will still looks good the last day of her life.
• She goes to the gym if she enjoys the gym, and many the Savants* thinking females do enjoy it, or another form of exercise that suits her personality. Her exercise choices are her own, and she will never complain about being pressured to do it, although she may beat herself up about her own lack of initiative to do the work sometimes, but rarely out loud, because that would be begging for excuses not to do it.
• Ideally, she is aware and accepting of her sexual fetishes and seeks for a partner who shares those fetishes and needs. She will not attempt to fit into the Normal Person* thinking modality and stays true to herself from as soon as she becomes aware of her own alignments.
• Her primary life partner is always her boyfriend, husband, or True Emotion Mirror. Friends and family come second to her. Ideally, she should make friends with other the Savants* thinking females only, who understand that when the boyfriend calls, the girlfriends can wait.
• Her intellectual pursuits come before her family. She will have children once she feels it’s time for children, and should she have missed the biological window, she won’t worry about it – after all, everything happens at the appropriate time, and if children didn’t happen, then they didn’t happen. She will fill her days otherwise – easily.
• She chooses her life path on her own, by her own guidance and through her natural habit of self-observation and self-knowledge. She will never ask another person to define herself and reads the zodiac for amusement alone if at all.
• She always keeps others at an arm’s length until she is ready to make a full commitment whether to a job or to a partner or friend.
• She trusts her heart completely and can fall in love at one sight. Ideally, she’ll trust this instinct and follows her heart to the altar the night she meets her true lover if she can, but that is sadly rarely the case given the culture we live in. She could, though, and she knows this!
• She never asks another person to make her decisions for her. Never. She wouldn’t imagine such a situation where she’d need someone else to make her decisions for her – she’ll allow others to weigh-in, though, she is anything but close-minded, but only if those people understand that she will be the one making the final decision for her. She won’t give ear to people who she knows expect her to replace her own opinion with the opinion of other people.
• She knows her place “in a pack” as in she knows exactly how skilled or talented she is, how desirable, how dependable and trustworthy she is in comparison to other people, men included. She will never try to prove herself to be equal to others when she knows she is not. (This doesn’t mean she cannot be, but she doesn’t consider herself a woman as much as she considers herself an individual, therefore comparing herself to men is not a gender issue but a question of actual skill and talent.)
• She will get an education in fields that support her future goals. She will hold herself to the same standard as male students, and will never use “feminism” as an excuse to get a foot in the door. She takes pride in her own self, her know-how, and skills. She may also forgo education in her pursuit to meet her own goals, but she may also be wise to take a cap year or two after basic education to reconnect with her authentic self and to undo a bit of the damage her education has done to her authentic self in traditional school if she feels that is necessary. She is very intuitive and should fight all attempts to box or control her feeling of who she is and where she is headed, even at an early age.
• She will never do anything underhanded, dishonest, or immoral, at least in the light of her own ideals and values that she says she upholds and supports. Her behavior does not contradict her own morals.
• She will attempt to not make a huge noise about herself, her talent, her needs, or her desires until she notices that she is TRULY unduly ignored in the community. Even then, she keeps it to the minimum.
• She will not let people who she does not love and admire close and does not allow people to form attachments and bonds to her that she’s  not willing to honor for the rest of her life. Still, she is helpful, charitable, and kind, and helps those in need without a question. She will detach people from herself as gently as possible, but cruelly if the situation calls for it; the faster people are detached, the better for them.
• Her charity would be wisest given anonymously to avoid unwanted attempts to create soul-bonds.
• She tolerates attacks on her character valiantly but allows no false stories to circulate about her if she can help it. She calls people out openly when the situation calls for it and is the alpha female of her community.
• When others treat her with disrespect, she will inform them of her reasons to cut her friendship off with them, but will not give people second chances. (the Savants* thinking women do not give people second chances, but tend not to give them a reason why they were cut off in the first place. That should change.)
• When she is ashamed of herself, she will own up to it, but she will also have a private life that she is entitled to. She will use her own discretion to keep others from knowing too much about her private life, sex life predominately, that can include kinks and curiosities, but she knows these matters belong to nobody but herself and her partner(s).
• The Savants* thinking ideal female is kind to others, but her love is inspired by unusual people, and given by merit and genuine adoration to those she admires.

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