The importance of not replacing your Precious Soulmates with Trail Companions*.

Trail Companions* are people who, like the name suggests, only hold partially similar values to you. They don’t fully understand you, they may understand some of what you are and want, but not other stuff, and at worst, they’re of the entirely opposite thinker type to you. They may want what’s best for you but define “your best” very differently to you, and they may want to create the “ultimate romance” for you while defining “ultimate romance” as you’d describe your worst nightmare.

When their manifestation power interferes with yours, the outcome can be a pure stail mate; they’re pulling your life with the best of their intentions toward the left, and you’re trying to pull your life toward the right at equal force, calling the goal by the same name; “true love” or “marriage.”

They may also believe you’re a happy bachelor or bachelorette and that you’d never want commitment because you may have said something along those lines because you hate the way people form marriages through a “decision to be faithful” rather than through actually being PULLED together through mutual love that doesn’t NEED commitment; there’s nowhere and no one you’d rather be with; commitment, thus, is unnecessary.

Now, your friend might have TOLD YOUR TRUE LOVE as much: “Oh, she’s not really into that whole ‘commitment’ thing.” He thinks what you’re saying is that you don’t want monogamy, and that may not be AT ALL what you meant.

If your friends don’t have a similar level IQ as you do, communication between you two is nearly impossible, and that creates misunderstandings that will manifest and anti-manifest in your life. You said “nougat,” and they heard “chocolate,” right? Someone with a lower IQ than you tends to cut corners a bit, interpret loosely, and connect dots a little unpredictably to you. That’s why you need to never be friends with people who don’t truly understand you and not ignore the fact you know. If you feel like you’re talking to a dog when your friend is there; someone who cares, yes, and loves you, yes, but doesn’t understand anything about your actual sentence, you know that’s not real friendship; it is a replacement connection, and you need to get real about it.

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